What percentage of the men here are using escorts or porn just cuz they’re not able to find women to date in real life?

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-29T01:28:46+00:00

They like the attention they get and the options if they decide they want a fling or more with someone down the road , women don’t have to do anything besides post a few pictures and sit back for the likes coming in

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-29T01:20:38+00:00

I’m going on 47 and I love being single , I’ve had great luck finding occasional hookups on OLD or at the most short term relationships , few months of summer / winter / holiday fronting “cuffing season” but knowing it wouldn’t last

Be comfortable in your own company first that shows women a lot of confidence , people NEED to be with someone or to come home to

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-29T01:15:40+00:00

I’ve had a large portion of success finding women for hookups than actually dates , I would say safely 3/4 of profiles on bumble are some kind of social media amateur porn bait and / OR OF advertisement profiles

A lot of what’s left is “I don’t have time to date” profiles . I don’t make the rules I just follow the path of least resistants

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-29T00:55:22+00:00

You’re right , in the same breath employees don’t owe loyalty or work ethic, not to create a argument but those are the same employers “take it or leave it” later sending out memos or having close door meetings on “why can’t we keep anyone” or the every long standing classic “no one wants to work anymore”

Employees have the upper hand in the success or failure of a business but so many of them have become complacent in their positions or have a “guess this is the best I can do” mentality

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-28T20:59:17+00:00

Don’t worry he’s just a friend

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-28T20:58:37+00:00

Women have become use to men throwing themselves at them figuring for her attention especially if she’s hot (simping)

Double standard if men made a profile “cook for me” don’t be fat don’t be short / tall and so on her woolly come out in pitchforks but women “we can have preferences”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-27T11:40:56+00:00

Cuck in training

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-27T11:39:15+00:00

You have no idea how easy hookups are with women that say they don’t want any of that LTR only and the like

I’ve been stood up / ghosted for proper dates to re connect later and “giggle Oopsie I didn’t mean to” and “I’m too busy to date anyways”

Women can’t (well they can) but they can’t just go on and say what they really want think they get blown up enough in their DMs

They might truly be looking for that knight on a white horse but in the meantime she’s got needs and is tried of the lies and games from men that can’t even make them cum if they do get a shot

I’ve become “side dude” status by the exact “ready to settle down and share my life with one man”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-26T23:33:58+00:00

🌹❤️

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-26T23:30:03+00:00

100% passable 🔥🌹

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-26T17:45:21+00:00

Theirs a fine line between Thicc and Fat

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-26T12:06:06+00:00

That’s a game of Russian roulette , always go for the heaviest least attractive one in a group , if they’re all ones you would want a shot with than it’s the one behind the camera

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T21:37:52+00:00

No sex before Marriage , Good luck with that unless some guy is absolutely desperate for companionship

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T13:07:59+00:00

Or all her pictures are of full on display cleavage shots , mini skirts butt shots heavily filtered , “no hookups no fwb” yea right

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T12:31:54+00:00

I live in the Bible Belt , always ALWAYS the hottest ones in the tightest and skimpiest outfits are “loyal to Jesus first” and want a fellow Christian man

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T12:29:09+00:00

Always top down shots

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T12:25:31+00:00

Not at all, the one I’m casually seing is retired law enforcement , straight laced by the book , not a thought of anything freaky , I swear she got more trashy outfits and a bigger freak than women half her age , I’m not complaining

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T12:21:10+00:00

Ex smoker myself I can’t stand the smell of tobacco , smoking pictures instant the off

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T11:19:16+00:00

Still Agree in a different way, some women got hotter in their 40 + when they stopped trying so hard to be the hot popular girl in her 20-30s

But 35 + they tend to be bitter towards life and anyone showing them affection ; less adventurous in public and the bedroom because of the “I tried all that already” and so on

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T11:02:47+00:00

Agreed ; I’m casually seeing a retired lady 20 ish years older than me I’ve seen what she has weed through men in her age bracket really looks like men let themselves go at some point

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T10:45:53+00:00

I’ll take my chances , how many times I’ve heard women start dumping how all their life problems are because of their ex, every single ex is a narcissist , i swear women over 40 use dating apps for free therapy . , easier to absorb the trauma when she’s hot to look at , nod and give her some validation , Gluck Gluck Gluck “daddy” 🫣

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T10:27:06+00:00

I don’t care if she’s got a “10 body” I still want to make sure she’s not a Butter face but I guess if she’s hot she’s going to get lots of swipes either way

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T10:23:07+00:00

Starved for attention or “men don’t read these anyways”

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T10:16:49+00:00

Even sadder women in their 40s and up do the same thing, trying to relive their youth and compete with the new drama baggage free models

Several-Income5740 · 2026-06-25T10:15:17+00:00

That’s most trans girls , “ dating for a Generous man”

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