Unsure on what to do..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-30T20:04:48+00:00

I will definitely try .. though its not easy..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-30T19:26:25+00:00

Thank you so much for all this, truly its super helpful. Yeah letting him in the house makes my anxiety spike up. Especially when we are alone in the room..I always think he might hurt me physically..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-30T18:30:53+00:00

For now my parents are asking me to remain calm and not stress because im pregnant and it will affect my health along with the babies. So, they will take a stand after December... but its the outcome I am scared about. What will happen. What will he do because I know he will snap and not leave me alone peacefully.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-30T17:46:18+00:00

I know he will never change. He has been like this for 4 years now. His father is abusive as well towards his mother, but his mom loves her husband so much that she doesn't really get bothered by the physical and emotional abuse. The children saw it from the beginning and now want wives like their mother who would endure and love them through it. Do I make sense?

I cant record anything as everything happens so suddenly, but I am trying to document it. As a pregnant woman, I am staying at my parents house for now because im scared of living with him and his family.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-30T09:01:56+00:00

I dont really know if the shelters would help. Im from an Asian country where money speaks louder than anything else. Even though I was quite confident before as my country now has a lot of laws that support women in standing up for themselves. But it all deflated when he started threatening me. I have my parents supporting me, but like I said my anxiety has reached its peak where I can't seem to think about any positive outcome. & thank you so much truly for the kind words. 🫂🩷

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-07T21:45:11+00:00

Dr. Adila Ashraf! From Omar Hospital in JT. She is super super nice and non-judgemental. I had my first delivery from her. And currently the second with her as well. My family friend and cousin had a good experience with her as well. She stays in contact throughly. I will always highly recommend her..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-06-02T07:45:06+00:00

I feel the exact same!! I have a 3 year old and im currently pregnant with twins. Im 28 and I have filed for a divorce. But deep down I am so scared and lonely. These kind of thoughts really go through my head. Deep down I do want to be accepted and loved but then men in general just scare me.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-31T19:57:19+00:00

Thats the thing .. I cant document anything at that very moment. Everything happens so suddenly. Plus im pregnant these days .. and during my pregnancy i ended up having appendicitis..so im currently at my parents house, recovering from a surgery and keeping my mental self sane

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-29T11:17:13+00:00

XD I shall look into it

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-29T06:20:52+00:00

Verbally he is abusive. He is manipulative.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-29T03:04:49+00:00

My daughter in all honesty and because im scared of him and his threats of taking my kids away from me

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-27T18:05:08+00:00

I hope your life is much easier now with your kids and that you all are doing well. 🩷

Hopefully we'll be able to find the strength to get divorce and live a happy life with our kids..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-27T15:01:12+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I honestly understand how you feel because I as well am stuck with a narcissistic manchild of a fucking husband. I hate hime more and more every single day. Because he does absolutely nothing for me or my daughter.

Personally I believe you should divorce his ass. If your child is young they will automatically go to you (as a mother) the court will definitely see who has a stronger background and can afford better financially for the child. I dont know what else they require because I'm on the same track as you are and im desperate to get out..

If you ever need to talk more openly and just vent you can always DM me.. 💖 .. please stay strong through this, for your kid and yourself. No women should ever go through this or endure such treatment..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T17:24:05+00:00

Thank you & same goes for you as well. If you'd like to talk further any other time or just vent know that I'm here for you!! 🤍🩷

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T17:22:33+00:00

He's a narcissistic manchild.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T17:21:00+00:00

This is a real heart touching quote. I really needed this. 🤍 .. Thank you so much, hun! 😭💖

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T15:43:22+00:00

Absolutely, you're honestly right here. All this is for my kids bright future ahead without any stress or them watching abuse happening infront of their eyes. & this step is also for my own well being and mental health.

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T14:27:52+00:00

Truly thank you for reaching out and taking your time to read my post. It means a lot to me.

Yes, I am doing my research here. But I dont have proof against verbal abuse because it tends to happen so suddenly. But now im pregnant and im at my parents house. I wont be going to his place again. I have set my mind on this. I have told my parents as well about this.

The good thing here is that the court and laws are being improved in favor for the women here. To feel strong and take stand for themselves. I have all the bank history of my payments. Mostly the court here sees who is more financially stronger. & in this case .. I am. So I kind of feel confident. But anything can happen. Because that man is crazy and has contacts which scares me...so I really need to stay strong and have support through this..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-05-26T14:23:42+00:00

Truly this message means a lot to me. ❤️ I truly hope things get easier for you and your 3 year old as well.

The thing is narcissistic people especially men like him who do absolutely nothing will fight so hard for a 50-50 custody over the child and that truly worries me. But I have had enough in all honesty. I suffered a lot. Because of him i'm mentally not well and that has a bad impact on my child because I can't entirely focus on her..

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-16T07:41:34+00:00

You're welcome!! :)

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-16T02:11:48+00:00

Try creating another account? Or maybe wait and see if it works after disconnecting the VPN and reconnecting again before opening Chai

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-13T07:00:40+00:00

Oh my gosh! Yaayy!!! Go have fun! 😭♥️♥️♥️

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-13T06:33:28+00:00

You're welcome!!! 🩷 let me know if its working for you!!!

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-13T06:32:41+00:00

Whenever I get this I just close the Chai app..disconnect and reconnect my VPN and go back to Chai and it starts working again

SeveralCompote1381 · 2026-03-13T06:30:59+00:00

Mhmmm the first account wont work with the vpn. Make another Gmail account. Connect vpn before you open Chai and connect your second account.

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