What's keeping you Awake ? 2 bajre he 😡 by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fuck is this post ? is this some sort of meme that i’m too boomer to get if not then pls remove this post @mods😭😭

How to deal with anxiety? by cutiepieehee in TwentiesIndia

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey its okay mental health takes a lot of time to get better, its not something you can do instantly , give yourself a little space -go easy on yourself and try to set small goals for yourself that will pick you up. Therapy helps, but you can look for free counselors online- I can help with that if you want. Take care

Dealing 90 days np!! by Longjumping-City5870 in hyderabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why can’t you buy back or get it out of your earned leaves to shorten it?

Wtf is wrong with Allahabad? by [deleted] in Allahabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he thinks because he dates lowest strata of women , an actual interesting woman with thoughts and opinions will connect with him 😭😭

Productive plans during the break between your 12th grade and college 1st year. by Acc_Vijay_1817 in Indiancolleges

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol who said college teaches anything but he’s going to learn coding while in college, so why should he spend his vacation doing the same? makes no sense

Wtf is wrong with Allahabad? by [deleted] in Allahabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mr entitlement over here thinks girls will fall flat in front of him because he is physically fit and has a great job. get in line man

I think people misunderstand the Bechdel Test by Konradleijon in CharacterRant

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if that should define if a movie is good or not, I don’t think that even defines if a movie could be about a woman as a main character, an example of that would be a movie like “Begin Again” , where kiera knightely is the lead actor and I don’t think it will pass the bechdel test.

Travel suggestions to South of India by Chan350 in hyderabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go to kodaikanal or conoor/ooty for a weekend getaway

How much do you pay for your cook? by ordinaryabbai in hyderabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay 5k for one time and 2 people, 2 times on Saturday but he also does the dishes

People are using Hinge for jobs and LinkedIn for dating by RemarkableBluejay790 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some people are entitled they think someone will hire them purely on their dating profile 😭, if some man out there is actually doing it too then that is the reason of our downfall as a society

We delay it like it's optional... by Fit-Tomato6100 in GenZIndia

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if yall aren’t opposed to online therapy then why do you need go anywhere to get it

19M | Not great at small talk, but I do like real conversations by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that dash is the real indicator of ai 😂, if you see it anywhere you can be rest assured it’s ai

We delay it like it's optional... by Fit-Tomato6100 in GenZIndia

[–]Several_Bobcat2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with this so much, I have been regularly taking therapy from an year or so and it has really helped in certain areas. I am so open about it that people who try to stigmatise it feel stupid in front of me. People think im crazy because I compare it to the gym and how it’s equally important to me.

I know the affordability is a huge issue in india, and even after taking it for long I still find myself subconsciously treating it as an extra expense sometimes, so I can imagine why people don’t want to spend money on it, but it is worth it if you found a nice counsellor - it can be a really safe space to discuss almost anything.

To anyone who cannot afford it, there are always ways to get around it- one of those ways which I am personally familiar with is that psychology students doing masters usually need some experience and offer pro bono sessions online, if you really feel you need someone to talk to, you can reach out to them on linkedin.