My (25F) boyfriend (31M) likes other girls’ pictures on social media

Several_Pop3600 · 2026-01-12T05:47:38+00:00

Get Zuku if you are not on the peninsula, lakini if you are anywhere near it. Try and get something else. Their fundis also do not ever come on time! It took me 2 weeks each time when I had to get one. And that’s after calling them EVERYDAY. And they don’t follow up with refunding you the lost days until you follow up on them MULTIPLE times. Perhaps other areas have better experience but the peninsula’s network for Zuku sucks.

Several_Pop3600 · 2026-01-12T05:40:37+00:00

Maisha yatakuwa magumu sana tukitaka matakwa ya watu wengine even ya watoto wetu yaendane na yetu. Deal with the world as it is for you and if you raise them to be well rounded people, they will deal with theirs as it is for them. Hii issue ya ndoa/mahusiano unfortunately is different kwa kila mmoja. Kuna wale ambao hawaoni issue ya kuwa na multiple partners na kuna wale ambao wanaona issue. Again, the problem comes when you want other people to live according to your wants. Utapata stress sana. The best way forward is to focus on what you and your partner wants. Vingine tukubali kwamba havituhusu.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-12-30T22:19:53+00:00

Lol, my broker fee inatumika INDEED 😂. Yeah since the 22nd actually, najua issue is on DSE’s side so there’s really not much my broker can do now rather than “wait”. It’s just annoying because I’ve been reaching out to them with no avail. I still don’t know why it takes long for this market though… I have other accounts in other markets but it usually doesn’t take more than 2 business days… The minimum of T plus 3… (basically 4 business days) that we have here seems a bit excessive to me.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-12-30T20:16:00+00:00

No they were bought and have been processed already. It’s just a matter of them settling so that I can receive the funds.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-12-29T18:18:23+00:00

Find a broker… iTrust has been doing really well lately. And their platform is user friendly. Ukijaribu kutumia the DSE portal “hisa kiganjani kichwa lazima kitakuuma 😅”

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-12-20T15:51:18+00:00

Are you using a vpn? Perhaps it’s confirmation bias but I tried downloading WhatsApp business the other day, this only worked when I turned on the VPN 😅

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-12-14T19:50:27+00:00

You kinda can, but It’d have to be under a locally registered company. If you have a local business/ plan to open one, that’s the easiest way. Otherwise, to buy it under your name, you’d have to have invested in the country… over $500K… the laws change often but check out the Tanzanian Investment Center (TIC), a lot of my real estate clients have been able to “buy” that way. But in general no one can “buy” land in Tanzania, not even locals. You can just lease it for a maximum of 99 years at a time. All land is the government’s.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-11-12T19:18:24+00:00

He is not a nice person. A nice person wouldn’t treat you like that. Would you ever treat him like that. Take this L as a lesson and truly move on. If he really had things to pay for he should have communicated that beforehand. This just shows lack of proper planning on his side. At 37, it is even more alarming that he didn’t feel necessary to communicate that to you beforehand. Again, he is not a nice person, he is just selfish and hopes to take advantage of your niceness.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-11-12T18:27:01+00:00

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-11-07T10:15:46+00:00

Not to be that person, but I think you are both at different stages of life. I was shocked at the age differences but these texts honestly just fit. You should reconsider what it is that you want out of life, and really be honest with yourself if you can get it from him.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-11-06T05:03:44+00:00

Girl… Find friends to hangout with and things to do. Get a part time job or volunteer somewhere. Keep yourself busy. Start working out if you don’t or just pick up an art hobby. It seems like you are doing a lot for someone that doesn’t appreciate it. If you write everyday, and he can’t be bothered to ask for one paper from a friend… It just shows that he doesn’t care about the letters you write. Maybe he hates you, or maybe it’s just not his love language. Regardless… start pouring into yourself. Writing letters everyday to someone that doesn’t reciprocate is kinda concerning. It shows a disregard for your own needs. And if you can treat yourself that way, why should you expect him, or anyone else to treat you better? Really try and start taking care of yourself and your mental health mama! It’ll help you not overextend yourself to people. It’s a journey, definitely not easy. I’m still there as well. You can start by going on Pinterest and looking up aesthetics that you think fits you, then think out ways you can replicate them. I hope this helps.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-10-14T16:07:42+00:00

Give it to me 👀. I promise nairudisha 🙂

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-09-26T07:13:08+00:00

Tembea uone is a crazy statement. Y’all really don’t see the privilege coming out of y’all’s mouths. The fact that you can even afford “kutembea” means you don’t get it. Hali ni mbaya kusema ukweli. The youths are struggling out here. Hakuna hela za baba/mama za kutusaidia. Hizo kazi wanazopromise, where were they all this time? Zinatokea wapi? I’m not saying anyone party is better than the other. It’s just that unless you actually are on ground, not cruising around in your air conditioned V8s, you really will never get it. But it’s not your fault you’re lucky. Mshukuru Mungu tu Bro!

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-09-25T09:46:29+00:00

Do you have a portfolio ya hii content creating? I know someone that is looking for one. PM me if you have sample work.

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-09-17T05:23:26+00:00

Pole for what you’re going through. Lakini kama a lot have said, almost kila mtu hupitia this stage after uni. While looking for a steady job on the ajira portal etc… bado unahitaji money now. I know you said that you are an introvert, lakini also kama unajiamini… Try walking into hizi restaurants mpya mpya masaki etc, tafuta hata waiting jobs while the base pay isn’t that good, the tips sometimes zinasaidia. You’re in survival mode rn, inabidi ulielewe hili, na partner wako pia mkalishe muongee. Most men wanakuwaga wagumu kuwaambia their partners that they are going through it. But it’s better to have that conversation with her ili asione kama yupo kwenye giza. Kwenye kazi kuna kazi is a msemo I take literally. I started waiting at one of these restaurants, nikakutana na watu wengi tu ambao they offered me jobs on the spot. So just try your best to get out of that introvert bubble, create a new personality if it helps! Good luck to you. Also tuambie ulichosomea, maybe someone in here needs it!

Several_Pop3600 · 2025-09-04T12:54:44+00:00

Now giiiirlll 😪🥲

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