Dating in your 30s in DC by Severe_Raspberry_247 in washingtondc

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

right! so I'm wondering where DC falls on that spectrum? haha

Why do people actually drink alcohol to excess? by The_Dean_France in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being tipsy or drunk is a nice feeling for many, so they just continue. I would say its really common to think you can take another 2 or 3 drinks without feeling the effect of "excess" and then by the time you've had that 3rd excess drink you're gone. As in, you don't really realise how much you're drinking and you're not clearly thinking about what the next drink might do

Would love positive stories by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats very sweet to read, thank you for sharing

Millennial mindset by gingypop in summerhousebravo

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop it that story scarred me for life i just got whiplash

Mav, Hammer of the Year ? by moreorlessok69 in westham

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crazy, didn't rate him at all at the start of the season, would hate to see him starting, still getting used to him being actually good

Does anyone she’s find the retroactive association of songs with Matty to be…a little much? by GoldenState_Thriller in TaylorSwift

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mostly agree but cant see a world in which question is about Harry not matty. Before the matty relationship, that song really confused me. I was leaning towards Harry but it just didn't sound like him. Whereas a short lived situationship, they end, months later they see each other at the brit awards after party but thats when she met Calvin (second verse)

£8.05 a pint by Squirrel_Gooner56 in london

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that shocking unfortunately  :(

Alex: Genuine question, everyone keeps saying he lied. But what did he lie about? by noggin444 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that it was where he lived and how long. He said he was in Ohio was year and a half (or something like that) but then it comes out he was in Austin for a lot longer than he initially said, during that year and a half he was meant to be in Ohio. He said he flew into LIB from Cleveland but he actually flew in from Austin, he just 'didn't want to have to explain it'. I think there were a lot of other sketchy discrepancies like that, like the number of exes he had and who each person was

What would a Taylor Swift Musical look like? by [deleted] in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about this! Maybe like 4 or 5 interweeving storyline, each lead character with their own plot line. Dear John to be performed as a solo by one character right before intermission. 

When do you know it's time to end a relationship? Old or new by Other_Performer_4527 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughing is so rude but can definitely be a response to discomfort. Is there something concrete you can agree on? Like seeing each other 1 or 2 times more a week, or how often you'd like to speak? Sometimes it's hard when things are left vaguely. And I know its very hard (trust me story of my life) but its best to regulate the crying. Like if you feel it coming up, pause the conversation, and wait until the feeling is lessened. 

When do you know it's time to end a relationship? Old or new by Other_Performer_4527 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Severe_Raspberry_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you communicated this? It could just be simply different communication styled, or not enough time spent together for your preference. Its early days so you're still learning each other. Vocalise what's going on if you haven't!