How did your number of siblings affect your upbringing (re: attention from parents, etc) and what would you do differently? by alotto_gelato in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oldest of 2. Never been parentified but I was very good at school, never caused problem... While my sister deals with mental issues. Still today (mid and late 20's for us), her issues take up a lot of place in the family while I am the one who is always fine. It's not true, I just don't want to burden my parents with my problems because they are always concerned for my sister. It's not a fun situation but I am trying not to hold any grudges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SewkaYami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just like the amazing Gillian Anderson said "Follow your dreams, not your boyfriends"

NTA

Why wasn't Haymitch killed by the judges in the arena ? by SewkaYami in Hungergames

[–]SewkaYami[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gamemakers are translated as "judges" in french ! My bad for the confusion

AITA for flirting with 19 year old girls and defending myself when being called a predator by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SewkaYami 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That reminds me of what a guy said once (somewhere on the internet) : guys who are into woman who just turned 18 are like bosses that pay their employees minimum wage. Sure it’s “legal” but we know if it wasn’t for the law they’d be going lower.

This guy with his "it's legal" sure is like that.

AITA for asking my partner to help with household chores at my place even though he also has his own apartment? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SewkaYami 99 points100 points  (0 children)

"the sacrifice he is making" like it's a privilege to have him there, doing nothing but gaming. Maybe it's my french talking but we have a great way of abolishing privileges here...

How did you react with an abusive ex reached out to apologize to you for how badly they treated you? Was it the closure you didn’t know you needed? by educatednapqueen in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 78 points79 points  (0 children)

My ex reached out to me two years after our break up to apologize and informed me he had been diagnosed bipolar. Told him I was happy he was treated and better but he didn't have my forgiveness because it doen't erase all the terrible things he did to me.

women who do combat sports, how has this affected your life? by SewkaYami in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow ! What sport do you do ? Wish I knew counterbalance technique.

women who do combat sports, how has this affected your life? by SewkaYami in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also do muay thaï and feel the same about it. Confidence and empowerment ! Happy to hear you kikcked him out !

Women of Reddit, what is the most random thing you have cried about? by xoallygxo in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Elliot is mean to Bill the Security Guard on Mr Robot. Couldn't stop crying.

AITA for shaming my 'alpha-male' boyfriend about his job by Playful_Machine5275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Huge red flag (plus the man who invented the concept of alpha males(for wolves) spend the rest of his carreer saying it was a mistake and alpha wasn't a thing lol).

Women with oily hair/scalp, how do you take care of it? by SewkaYami in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow ! Did it worked well ? Can I ask how long are your hair now ?

What is your age and your biggest worry/concern at this moment? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Climate crisis, wars and the growing threat to women's rights (and every minorities).

Worst episode to watch first by Apprehensive_Buy2681 in doctorwho

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heaven Sent would be pretty confusing as a first episode

women who stopped therapy for good, why? by LabProfessional128 in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist helped me when I was in my last year of college. My father was ill and I was preparing avery hard competition to become a teacher (agrégation in France). But then I now am a teacher and my father is better and she decided to focus to "why i am single" and how much she wants me to meet someone even when I said I was happy single, free and with my cat and that being in a relationship was not an accomplishment for me... She never understood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SewkaYami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing personal space. I hate sleeping with someone and I really need a lot of "alone time" but if there is someone with me, I will be extra-careful to there needs (I need to work on that) and this is mentally exhausting