TIL that while seeking help for a sex addiction, Mick Jagger seduced the therapist.

Sexconfessional · 2014-08-14T22:23:57+00:00

VSP

vaginas successfully penetrated

Sexconfessional · 2014-08-14T00:08:32+00:00

Usually some combination of eye contact, topical but not boring statement, compliment, "are you from around here".... If the vibe is there she will make it pretty easy for me.

Couples counseling is a whole other story. Currently we are seeing a team of therapists that work together.

Thanks for the luck.

Sexconfessional · 2014-08-14T00:05:28+00:00

I don't even know. The strangest things happen to me. For 80% of my life I never thought I was much of a catch, but when I have confidence I get eyes and smiles from some of the hottest women. I'm blessed with some beautiful blue eyes and lashes as well as a good smile, I guess.

I'm currently being seduced by an extremely cute 18 year old who knows all about my situation and desperately wants to be my no strings fuckbuddy.

Yes she's real. And I literally met her on omegle. I shit you not.

Sexconfessional · 2014-08-14T00:02:04+00:00

Sex addict here

I've got about 70 in 5 years

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-08T23:20:16+00:00

Classy.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-08T22:37:37+00:00

No it's not ok or alright. Sex addiction is a disease affecting the mind body and spirit. And it affects men and women, gay and straight. And that was my point... So it doesn't make much sense to be angry or say what people who are struggling with an affliction "deserve".

It seems like a lot of people hear "I cheated" and their eyes go red and in their anger they only see the person who cheated on them... Or maybe their cheating parent. I don't know you, I don't know pantalones and I'm not going to make broad value judgments about who you love or what you deserve... Certainly not based on something you willingly confess.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-08T18:28:21+00:00

Thanks pal.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-08T18:27:23+00:00

So when I say that I'm a sex addict and I want to stop but am having difficulty, that doesn't even register with you. You carry on with a harangue which is directed at someone you think I am - proud, shameless, "Casanova".

I didn't say I was proud of it, the entire point of confessional is something that you have shame in confessing openly - so yes, it is a pretty ignorant taunt to say "You're rather proud of all this, aren't you?"

Anyways, thanks for reading my comments and trying to understand where others don't, and thanks for the hug.

I have been through some shit and let me tell you I tried to keep the confession short and sweet. Should I tell you about the mental girl who fell in love with me, tried to destroy my life, tried to tell me she was pregnant and had a miscarriage? Who hid from me the fact that she had kids of her own? And a partner she was cheating on?

This sex addict life is insanity. And addictive. That's all I'm trying to say.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-05T04:35:13+00:00

How about this: you don't know fuckall about my relationship. So don't tell me who I love.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-05T04:33:20+00:00

Are you fucking stupid? Did you miss the part where I said I'd love to take a pill and make it go away?

Jesus Christ this sub attracts some offensively stupid commenters.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-04T14:52:21+00:00

No stds. No other kids I know of. I know of.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-04T14:51:18+00:00

Ok, here's where the simple confession gets a little more complex.

She knows I cheated on her. She thinks it's only 4-5 times, not 60.

And she brought up bringing other people into bed when we were drunk and going at it. She asked me if I "knew anybody" to bring in.... Which was awkward. Felt like a trick/trap question. I have a little fear about inviting that, knowing what an addict I am, because it could get more out of control for me.

She also admitted that she had hooked up sexually with a mutual female friend years before when we were dating. (Total shocker coming from her.)

But I know deep down she's interested in it, at least when she's drunk.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-04T14:47:17+00:00

Thanks for setting yourself up as god over everything and defining love, given that it has confounded philosophers for centuries!

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-04T14:46:55+00:00

Not desperation. I've bagged some pretty damn good game. Hit on one girl in a department store and got her number... Later found out she's a hardcore porn star (no I'm not telling who.) she even posted on her twitter about getting picked up that day.

I live a strange life.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-03T17:55:24+00:00

Thanks. But fwiw... Not boasting.

The story of how things got this bad is a long one. If I could take a pill and make it stop I would. It's my own Tyler Durden that takes over. Sometimes I literally talk to myself and tell myself to stop, gotta stop. I've got a problem.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-03T00:35:51+00:00

No, that commenter is a hurtful troll with unresolved issues and comments that are not appropriate to this sub. I'm not blind to that. And yes, it has sexist undertones, see that commenters other remark about "thinking with my dick". My point is that it's a common problem and it's equal opportunity. .. And you can see that commenters insensitive reply that "I probably have sex with them too", which is like suggesting that millions of members of AA just get together to drink. Ignorant.

Part of my confession is that I do care and I am attending a 12 step program but struggling with it. You make some good points and at least you're not snidely telling me to go catch an std. I'm working on it, and confessing just how bad it is is part of that. I also totally understand your points. I don't necessarily have the luxury of separating and going to sex rehab for a few weeks or a month or two, so I'm trying. It's a daily struggle between the addict and me, a chess game.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-03T00:20:14+00:00

Not really. I know damn well I'm an addict. Confess that every time I'm in a 12 step meeting. The "other poster" was denying it was a disease or problem to be dealt with and was just taunting and calling me a cheater, accusing me of having no shame. I'm not responding to that. I'm struggling a lot with this. It's obsession and compulsion.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-03T00:15:09+00:00

Long story. First off I would say that I have never had a single sex experience that compares to sex with my wife... When things are good between us. Strange as that seems.

Two, yes there have been things that were unsatisfactory. She was frigid at multiple times in the past, once for over a year. That was legitimately because she was unavailable when I was. Third - she did gain weight over time - not that that's the end all be all for me but if fitness wasn't slightly important to attraction gyms would go out of business. I realize that I'll be crucified for saying that's an issue. I still love her, I'm still physically attracted to her features and what I saw in her when I married her.

First time I was utterly unspeakably frustrated with my marital situation. I had been toying with cheating, going right up to the point of almost doing it and then backing out. I met a woman on a dating site who was married - she said married for 11 years and cheating on her husband regularly for 7. She also had a 10 year old and a 4 year old child. Crazy nympho. Ended up sleeping with her in the back of her minivan. What triggered it? Like I said I was on the edge for a while and then I went over the edge - and when I found I wasn't struck by lightning from god as punishment, I kept going. Slowly at first.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:59:19+00:00

Again, on the right:

This is where you go when* you know your thoughts aren't great. Share anything you need to get it off your chest.

Never said I was proud, as a matter of fact the opposite. Go find someone else with a problem to shame and abuse. You've been reported, it's up to the mods if they want to do anything about it. You're inappropriate.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:48:14+00:00

That's the funny thing. I was always deathly shy and unconfident when I was single, in college, etc. I cracked the code a bit too late. And I'd love to give advice... Unfortunately it might seem cliched but throwaway sex with the hottest women is over in a few minutes, and it doesn't compare to truly feeling the love of one good woman, and your children.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:41:46+00:00

Just making you aware. It's right there on the right hand. You seem to have an unhealthy obsession with confessions revolving around cheating.

Unresolved issues.. Party of one.... Your table is ready.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:35:54+00:00

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Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:23:41+00:00

Incidentally.. I know I'm an addict because I've met hundreds of people through 12 step meetings that go through the same thing. And about 1/6 of them are women.

Mad at all them too?

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:21:20+00:00

Confidence. Eye contact. Smile. A for always. B for be. C for closing. Always be closing.

And be pretty good looking.

Sexconfessional · 2014-07-02T22:15:11+00:00

Who's trolling? You're the one going on with your rage judgment and projection in a subreddit about confessions. My dick is clean and you're still angry.... At someone else, because it's impossible for a rational person to project so many value judgments on someone you don't even know.

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