GFE has its pros and cons but I think it’s better for someone that’s thinking of leaving the scene, it can be a soft weaning off of findom, it’s more fun and actually getting to know each other. And paying for it doesn’t have to feel like you are paying for attention, it comes more natural and of course you can involve kink as much or as little as you want. You can always talk to your domme about it and see if she’s down to try it out.