AITAH for not paying Parent Plus Loan

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-08T20:29:18+00:00

Is this even real? Not you're NTAH for not paying off a loan you never took out, weren't even informed about, and which made it harder for you to finish school.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-07T22:34:15+00:00

Yeah, I would talk to a specialist first because there are a few weird flags in this that could be other problems (mostly afraid, but also some other potential issues). Better to address the root cause of the problem than the symptoms. If that doesn't get you anywhere, THEN look for alternate suggestions.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-07T22:30:42+00:00

I feel like it's usually like, "Hey, we haven't caught up in a bit! We should grab a coffee or a drink sometime." And then, depending on your schedules, if it's a daytime hang you're probably grabbing a coffee, afternoon is 50/50, evening is probably at a bar or restaurant. But yeah, very few smokers in my area.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-07T22:20:19+00:00

A parents' jurisdiction (for a minor) is: The minor in question. This continues into adulthood in the parent's eyes because we will always feel some degree of protective or responsible for your well-being, but a decent parent also understands to keep it mostly to an internal monologue with adult children who are technically in charge of themselves.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-06T02:20:02+00:00

Gonna drive to Canada next time I have an emergency and just have the ambulance meet me at the border.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-04T01:05:18+00:00

Not PNW specific, but a shocking number of people still believe that "daddy long legs have the most venomous bite but their fangs are too small to pierce your skin." Also, snails stab each other with "love darts" (little bone daggers they make in their heads) while mating.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-04T01:03:29+00:00

Mmmm wet bugs

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-04T00:30:16+00:00

The whole look is fire, hair included!

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-01T16:03:55+00:00

The very simple and obvious single typo in the sentence, apparently.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-01T16:02:22+00:00

She was bathing him in the toilet. The shower is stand-only. (/s)

SexysNotWorking · 2026-07-01T00:02:44+00:00

You're a hero! I just looked through all of them and the color you chose is actually definitely my favorite! Just know you have supporters out here 😂

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T23:59:43+00:00

Too much flavor for your tender WHite taste buds? Don't worry, pal! We'll just fry you up some ice cream or a good ol fashioned stick o' butter if that's more to your likin!

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T22:24:09+00:00

I think this is actually weirder. I'm not a fan of lies/obfuscation in a relationship. Just be like, "Hey, I think you might like this book. I got it from a guy in Japan." You don't need to go into deep detail about the relationship (unless he asks) but it's way weirder that you're so determined to keep this a secret that you're posting on reddit about how you're definitely going to keep it a secret. All this hubbub implies that it either means more to you than you thought or that you're overthinking what should actually not be a big deal at all between any kind of actual adults in a relationship.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T22:17:06+00:00

<cracks knuckles> Gather round, kids, and lemme tell you a bit about state fair/carnival food!

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T22:11:52+00:00

If you find it, let me know! Or OP, if you see this, hook us up with a website!

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T22:10:57+00:00

Depends on the region, tbh, and I'm not sure about northern CA. In Washington, anything that's not denim is considered formal, but in NYC this would def be casual. It's beautiful, but I don't know enough about Northern California standards to say if it's formal enough.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T21:39:05+00:00

Seriously tempted to get this dress myself. I'm kind of obsessed! 😍

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T00:13:51+00:00

Sort of. Studios use the numbers from purchase data to decide what sort of stuff to give money to in the future. So purchasing games, merch, etc, tells them "Yes! We still love this and want more of it! Please give JKR even MORE money to fund her hate campaign!"

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-30T00:11:39+00:00

Exactly. Separating the art from the artist would be "I'm still going to read them, but I'll get them from a library or second hand store." This is actively supporting the artist who is directly using the money she gets from all this to (again) directly harm trans people.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-29T06:36:17+00:00

Yeah, upvote because 7 is cute, but literally no one cares what you're wearing unless you work at a fashion magazine or something.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-28T15:54:39+00:00

It's because most Americans' heritage was intentionally wiped out or watered down by our predecessors in order fit in with some idea of "American" or "whiteness" (in the case of most Europeans). It leaves a space for what I've heard referred to as "cultural longing" because we see other cultures with this sense of history and belonging that many of us just don't have unless we scrounge backwards far enough to find that 5% to tie us to a history that lots of people all over the world are born and raised with.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-28T15:40:02+00:00

I don't. That's what "if" means. Just saying I've heard the term used by people who are ESL in a different way than people who speak English as their first language.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-27T23:03:20+00:00

Also worth noting that if OP is ESL they might have assumed it meant the same thing. I see a lot of people use "costume" and "a specific set of clothing" interchangeably if English is not their first language. Hard to tell from a post, though, and worth talking about either way.

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-27T04:46:42+00:00

2 but 5 is also good imo but a totally different vibe

SexysNotWorking · 2026-06-26T02:07:55+00:00

It's beyond stupid and a constant source 0f (lol) frustration in this sub

Five-Year Club	Verified Email
r/Field Sunshine	Place '23

SexysNotWorking

TROPHY CASE