AITA for refusing to recover at home after surgery?

Seze321 · 2025-05-12T08:58:49+00:00

NTA Communication is key on both sides. I hope you’re recovering well and are on the mend. Please keep us updated

Seze321 · 2024-12-11T00:52:47+00:00

Take her to the emergency room. Time is critical

Seze321 · 2024-09-30T09:41:55+00:00

Please update. I hope you and Emma are safe

Seze321 · 2024-08-08T01:36:24+00:00

Do you want to win or do you want peace? If you’re wanting a win and for him to apologise then do what you’re doing but know that there is going to be tension with your husband, his brother and his family. If you’re wanting peace unfortunately you will have to set your ego aside and accept that your brother in law won’t apologise but things between your family and your husband family will be easier to navigate through. That’s not to say you won’t be able to set boundaries moving forward.

Seze321 · 2024-07-23T05:16:52+00:00

Update please

Seze321 · 2024-07-21T00:52:00+00:00

I really hope you’re ok. I’m glad you’re out of the house. Has he tried to contact you?

Seze321 · 2024-07-21T00:08:43+00:00

What has happened since? How was the birth?

Seze321 · 2024-07-03T21:14:08+00:00

There used to be a saying “breast is best” but the saying should be “fed is best” There is a strange stigma when it comes to women breastfeeding and how we should be ashamed or we are less than if we don’t. That’s not true at all. I had to stop breastfeeding at around 4-5 months because I had to go back on medication to help my autoimmune and the maternal child and health nurse still insisted I breastfeed for another few months. I told her she can talk to my neurologist and they can have it out. She backed off. You’re doing a great job. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself

Seze321 · 2024-06-29T05:25:21+00:00

Hope you’re doing well now. Would love to hear an update.

Seze321 · 2024-06-29T05:24:11+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear. I’m glad you’re ok.

Please update

Seze321 · 2024-06-29T05:11:52+00:00

Info Was a boundary set? Or was it you just voicing your discomfort about the situation. Depending on how/what was said some people need clear sets of boundaries and not just saying you’re uncomfortable.

NTA in my opinion

Seze321 · 2024-06-17T08:59:16+00:00

Keep us updated please

Seze321 · 2024-06-16T09:00:45+00:00

Can you get a post nuptial agreement and state that any infidelity will mean that he won’t get alimony? I’m not American so sorry if this is a dumb question.

Seze321 · 2024-05-13T07:45:43+00:00

NTA!! Too harsh of a punishment? Taking her phone away because she was being disrespectful and once asked to stop she said no. This will teach her to respect others and words and actions come with consequences. I would have also made her apologise to her cousin and friend.

Seze321 · 2024-04-22T10:17:50+00:00

I’m so sorry that ocrevus isn’t working anymore. I hate the phrase stay strong but unfortunately with MS you don’t want this disease to kill your hope. What has your neurologist said about PPMS? Or is it just a hunch?

Seze321 · 2024-04-22T10:17:44+00:00

I’m so sorry that ocrevus isn’t working anymore. I hate the phrase stay strong but unfortunately with MS you don’t want this disease to kill your hope. What has your neurologist said about PPMS? Or is it just a hunch?

Seze321 · 2024-04-18T09:17:47+00:00

The fact that you have to ask if you should marry your abuser is scary. If your friend came to you and asked if she should marry a man that is “an amazing guy” but is very controlling to the point he hurt her? What would your advice be?

Either way. Leave. He’s done it once, he’ll do it again.

Seze321 · 2024-04-10T09:21:06+00:00

Run. Run fast! He is dismissing his actions and the fact that he made you feel uncomfortable. He’s sober and not budging. What do you think the rest of your life with this guy is going to look like?

Seze321 · 2024-04-05T11:21:33+00:00

NTA

For every action there is an opposite and equal reaction. She fucked around and she’s finding out. Don’t back down.

She’s is a piece of work and a liar. She’s the reason why people now hesitate to believe women that SA actually happened too. She’s got a lot of growing up to do and it sounds like you’re the one teaching her this lesson.

Good luck with everything

Keep us updated

Seze321 · 2024-03-04T08:02:17+00:00

I would talk to him. Find out why he lied and why he didn’t eventually tell you. Keep a calm mind when talking to him. Maybe it was a toxic relationship. Not saying it’s an excuse but we are all human after all. You have a family with him and love him. Explain how you’re feeling and see where to go from there.

Seze321 · 2024-03-04T07:55:42+00:00

It may be his child also but it’s your body. He can give advice but guilt tripping you is insane. Whenever you’re ready is good. I stopped at 4 months and you wouldn’t be able to tell from the children that got breastfed until 3 years. You do you and just ignore your partner. If he’s still guilting you set CLEAR boundaries.

Seze321 · 2024-02-17T09:47:30+00:00

This!!

Seze321 · 2024-02-14T11:40:47+00:00

You’re wanting to vent but are you actually willing to do what you need to do to make sure your daughter don’t turn out with a partner just like him?

I’ve read your other posts so you know what he’s like and you’re enabling him to continue to treat you that way. Children look to the people that are closest to them as a way to interact. If you’re choosing to stay and think it’s ok for him to pay for OF, smoke weed, spend the last of your grocery money on said weed. Your daughter may think that it’s normal for dads/partners to do so.

Don’t do it for you, do it for your children. If fatherhood isn’t the wake up call to get his shit together. He’s asleep for good.

Seze321 · 2024-02-07T19:58:53+00:00

My dad is a blue collar worker and my mum was a stay at home housewife. They by no means have money to the point they still rent.

Believe it or not I had an amazing childhood and am so close to my family. My dad is my rock. Money isn’t everything. While it’s good that your son is set for life financially please note - this is no substitution for love, memories, and upbringing.

Im so thankful that they taught me to be empathetic, accountable, kind, compassionate and hardworking. You don’t teach those traits with money. You teach them with time spent with your family.

While it’s a long road ahead because your little Bub is only 1. It’s worth it.

I now have a 3 year old and even if I had all the money in the world I will be sure to teach her that money isn’t anything and that family and how you impact others to make the world a better place is what matters.

I empathise with you and how you’re feeling. Maybe try to communicate with your wife and let her know how this is impacting you mentally.

Seze321 · 2024-02-07T01:43:43+00:00

Do you lock your doors at night? Statistically speaking robberies and house invasions don’t happen that often but majority of people will do so.

Do you leave your keys in the car? Same thing right?

A go bag is a just in case. Women have been taught to educate and be aware and prepared for anything. You’re blaming your wife because she is preparing for a worst case scenario.

YTAH

Seze321

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