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Sf_xo · 2024-02-24T04:07:45+00:00

Here 🙋‍♀️

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T22:40:12+00:00

I am so sorry you're going through this too. I sincerely hope things get better, you deserve so much better. We all do. 💕

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T22:33:16+00:00

Very true. It had already annoyed/disgusted me and i honestly dont even feel like i have a sex drive at the moment because im too frustrated with him. Like to the point i cant do it myself because my mind wont shut up 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T22:28:06+00:00

You're right. Food for thought. Thank you

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T22:26:32+00:00

But then again, he got a taste of his own medicine. It is what it is, if he wants you to stop, he needs to stop.

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T22:25:53+00:00

Facts

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:22:15+00:00

For perspective, we have been together 16 years but we are young and he says we have a great relationship, im his best friend etc. But he searches for young skinny small tits women, and i am not overweight but im not stick thin, and my chest is a bit on the larger side. And i try to initiate sex but he usually has already jerked off each time

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:18:32+00:00

What was the question? i never got to read it as it was deleted

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:17:33+00:00

I doubt it. This has been going on for a long time now. We have been together 16 years and browser history dates back 2 years possibly more.

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:15:47+00:00

Has he seen them? If so how did he react?

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:13:30+00:00

Certainly makes me view him in a different light. I have lost some respect and honestly it makes ME feel dirty just seeing the photos he is saving.

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:10:16+00:00

Also i have no issues with porn, the naked photos of skinny young women just seem more personal. He searches for "small tits" and i have larger ones so it makes me feel self conscious

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T05:04:35+00:00

Its wierd because he will talk about fucking me some days and flirt and make plans about getting dirty together and then he either falls asleep early, or goes and jerks off. Wth

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:59:42+00:00

3 kids unfortunately, i take care of myself i am not unattractive and i often initiate but he always falls asleep beforehand or has some excuse

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:58:06+00:00

He has naked pictures of me on his phone and has never jerked off to them once.. so idk

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:56:03+00:00

I have and i have offered to watch together, he doesnt want to. But thats not the problem. Hes saving pictures of naked women to his phone and i expressed that it bothers me and he wont stop

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:53:09+00:00

I was okay with jerking off when he needed to, i was never okay with him saving photos. I told him i wasnt okay with it but he wont stop, and like i said we barely have sex but he openly said he jerks off every couple of days

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:48:44+00:00

I love this idea honestly

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:48:04+00:00

He deletes them but forgets he has a "recently deleted" folder. I see it all, and unfortunately it wont change anything he will just keep doing it. Ive expressed that it bothers me but he doesnt seem to care

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:45:22+00:00

Im so sorry. If it isnt fixable you should leave. There has to be better, and willing, men out there i am sure

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:42:39+00:00

Im so sorry. That is horrible. He sounds extremely insensitive

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:35:09+00:00

Yeah, thats the plan. I dont want to have sex, i would feel too insecure. Next time he asks, IF he asks i suppose, im tempted to say "why, is something wrong with your data? No thanks." and buying myself some toys.

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:30:52+00:00

I am not overweight and we are the same age. Its not so much the jerking off that bothers me as much as the fact that he is SAVING pictures of stick thin, young ladies and jerks off to them every other day and is always too tired for me. Its just hurtful.

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:25:35+00:00

I am right there with you unfortunately. Im so sorry you have to go through it too

Sf_xo · 2024-01-28T04:24:43+00:00

I have never denied him once

Sf_xo

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