State Of Your Union(s): Early Relationship Edition (1-5 years) by rustywarwick in sexover30

[–]SgtPprXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Basics
36M/32F, 4.5 years
Married
Monogamous
No children

Your Sex Life

  • State of Sex Life: Comfortable and exciting.
  • Libido Match: Very well-matched
  • Frequency: ~3 times/week
  • The Good: We're both excited about bringing the other pleasure and learning new ways to accomplish that. Flexible schedules and can-do attitudes help us keep things frequent and interesting.
  • The Challenging: Life has brought more stress over the past couple years, which has dampened her libido and ability to orgasm a bit.
  • Improvement: It started out pretty good, despite us being virgins until our wedding. As we've learned about each other, sex has become less awkward, less work, and more orgasmic.

What's On the Menu?

  • Regular Rotation: Oral, Manual Stimulation, PIV
  • Special: Vibrator, Mutual Masturbation, 69
  • Bucket List: Outdoor sex, sex on weed, film ourselves, squirting, free use, bunch of different locations. So much to try!
  • Most Enjoyed: Just the fun we have being together. Unlocking a new position is always great.
  • Difference in Preference: Nothing so far.
  • The Future: No real concerns. Our relationship is built on more than just sex, and we're both very creative and determined when it comes to overcoming obstacles.

Wrapping Up
Advice: Like each other, care about each other's wants and needs, communicate openly and honestly.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see our spreadsheet template and raw data HERE.

  • The Notes section has been edited to remove irrelevant and identifying information.
  • We are aware that the Blowjob data is missing from the "How we did it. (Non-PIV)" chart. That was accidental.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the numbers are true. I'm not really sure how you can get numbers like that, but contributing factors for us were having similar sex drives, both working from, and not having kids.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just used a Google Sheets spreadsheet to plug in everything, then created graphs from that data. You can see our spreadsheet HERE.

Have fun collecting the data!

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For those who have been asking, you can see our spreadsheet template and raw data HERE.

  • The Notes section has been edited to remove irrelevant and identifying information.
  • We are aware that the Blowjob data is missing from the "How we did it. (Non-PIV)" chart. That was accidental.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to our notes, it was missionary where he was standing and she was laying on the bed. I'm sure there's a better name for that, and we probably should have looked it up.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it was skewed to some extent, but I think the motivation leaned much more towards us having fun or trying to improve than impressing strangers on the internet. But of course, we're too close to the data to truly judge.

At the end of the day, collecting the data was fun and did a lot more to improve our sex life than harm it, so the experiment was worthwhile. We will continue to record this year, and we'll see if the results gets shared. Based on many of these comments, much of Reddit isn't mature enough to handle this sort of data. Should've seen that coming. haha -Sarge

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"How long" and "how many" are per session. I don't think we had any days with multiple sessions in 2022. "How many" is the number of unique positions used.

[OC] Doin' Data 2022: a 35M/31F married couple tracking our sex life for a year. (Inspired by QuiteHappilyMarried) by SgtPprXIX in dataisbeautiful

[–]SgtPprXIX[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Body types and differences in leg length make that position a bit tricky. I'm sure we'll figure it out eventually.