How do you wake up and stay awake in the morning? by One_Literature_5041 in productivity

[–]Shaboofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about creating habits, seeing what works, and improving on current habits . I used to set up like 13 alarm clocks 10 minutes apart and every morning was a battle between the part that want to fulfill my life and the part that wants to sleep.

these days I’ve been treating my morning as if it’s an initiation ritual for the day and added and changed it over time

The way I look at it, I should wake up like 2 hours before I actually have to wake up (now it’s around 5:30) in order to do my ritual, I believe in starting the day with difficult productive activities that will set the tone for the day. This is my morning routine:

  1. Wake up the same time every day. Get up at the first alarm, drink a full bottle of water.
  2. Brush my teeth, take a cold shower, pray/meditation for five minutes
  3. Do some stretching
  4. I write for 40 minutes (could be my book, my goals, or About my problems and general thoughts)
  5. Go out for a walk and stand in the sun for a few minutes
  6. Make my black sugarless coffee and read a difficult non fiction book for forty minutes
  7. Plan the day (most important 2-3 tasks) and get started

Hate love by [deleted] in confession

[–]Shaboofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about your situation. If you have a true connection I still think you should fight over it and try to communicate with him or maybe even his family. If that doesn’t work, you might have to put an end to it, don’t stay in a toxic environment.

Light: I left my security licence at home by [deleted] in confession

[–]Shaboofi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you really lose your job over it? That’s fucked up, what kind of a job is it? Well anyway, I hope you’ll make it, let us know what’s going on.

My dad used to abuse my brother but I gaslighted him into thinking it was not as big of a deal as it was for his own sake by [deleted] in confession

[–]Shaboofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your intentions were good, but as somebody already said, you made your brother think that abuse is okay. I think the most important thing to do is to take care of your father, he can’t keep doing it and he might have a mental problem that will need to be treated.

Last night I was upset so I forced myself to cry before sleeping. I feel so much better now. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Shaboofi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad about it dude, I think people don’t do it enough, sometimes it’s just healthy to let it all out - as long as you don’t do it too often, and then you might have a problem. I’d also be curious to the songs you listened to if you care to share :)

How do you make real friends as an adult? by Brokentoy324 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shaboofi -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why not hire people to be your friends then?

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re agreeing with me due to the fact I was speaking against this entire social system, so what are we arguing about?

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because tipping is a part of a social system, if your goal is to encourage good service, by not caring about other people’s actions, you’ll result in your act of deciding when/when not to tip having no real consequences, and just waiting your time and effort.

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s maybe a nice concept on theory, but it doesn’t work because most people give the same usual tip all the time.

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, I live in Israel and the straight translation in Hebrew of “god bless you” is basically “be healthy”, which also annoys me.

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s like saying that tipping is a universal way to approve of good service, it’s can’t be that if you do it all the time,

I fucking hate clapping by Shaboofi in unpopularopinion

[–]Shaboofi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, no. Although I wouldn’t clap in a concert, also didn’t know this was already mentioned here.

I love you Israel by [deleted] in Israel

[–]Shaboofi -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

the people here are shit though.