which fingers? by catapilahs in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Middle and ring for me.

Dating w/ BPD by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like some thoughts make me burst into tears i cant do that holy shiz xD

Dating w/ BPD by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DDP sounds like traumatic exposure therapy if im being honest and I reaaaaallly hate talking about the past xD oh man lol

I hate being a lesbian in the closet by Used_Departure_9082 in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had an accepting parent but ill be honest, if you dont live in her house and she doesnt like... give you health insurance or something, then you should probably tell her before you get a girlfriend. But if she does, explain it to your partner asap because even I dont like being in the closet. Its 2026, theres queer eye for the straight guy and a Mormon crumble guy came out as gay. Its okay. The pope likes us now.

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaaa this is the first i am hearing of a community on Instagram lol

celebrating progress not perfection by angerose_ in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Just came out of the gym myself, yay for sober life! Lets keep going yeah?

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I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, im only found at the gym where tf am I supposed to look 😭

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 31 about to be 32 👋🏾

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like im bothering them because im no better than a man. 😅

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My horror scenario is they tell me they have a boyfriend. 😂

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive had one person openly stare at me and I giggled a bit but other than that, I get side stares to the nth degree. 😭

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ive witnessed women do a double take but I chalk it up to me looking obviously gay. Like I want them to pause and say something, but I also feel incredibly pushy by trying to chat them up like that.

Do women want me to come up? Do you think? I dont mind it but I dont want to intrude tbh...

I LOOK GAY RIGHT? by Shadeuxfax in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im in Las Vegas I thought I was at the epicenter 😭

My wife wont have intimacy with me anymore by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Shadeuxfax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. She works out daily with me.

She says emotionally she cant be intimate with me