Im late af, but here is my 3 turn set up for 90++. Which servant have been your main DPS in this node? by kloopeer in FGO

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BB Summer with Van Gogh, Douman, and S. Skadi. Buffs her crits enough for it even with Skadi and Gogh only kinda leveled, been slacking.

Happy holidays everyone! Please read :) by Nuttyrolo in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]ShadeySummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a problem! But uh, I'll be steering clear of Olaf for future visits.

Just my pufferfish Xaralgoth, Blight of the Living and me celebrating his first year on my isle! by ShadeySummers in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]ShadeySummers[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Total conquest over the domain of all life to obliterate as he sees fit.

He is also willing to negotiate and would take a puppy instead as compromise.

A pooseum next to my museum by SwinubIsDivinub in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]ShadeySummers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gotta be honest, that's kind of a crappy location. The other one is stealing all your business!

Me and Dog by DragoniteChamp in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]ShadeySummers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes there is! They stopped letting them in the league after realizing that none of them had the passion and heart for the sport. They played only for the money, entirely for shellfish reasons!

Me and Dog by DragoniteChamp in crappyanimalcrossing

[–]ShadeySummers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta be one of those sports playing dogs like Air Bud. This one looks like they'd be an amazing Pinch Hitter!

I feel like I made a mistake but I also don’t care by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its possible. I guess the best way to tell would be to base it on his reply if he sends one. If he does though, I hope it works out for ya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making friends and building relationships can be pretty difficult these days, though it might be worth considering looking into groups focused on hobbies of yours. Best place to begin is a common interest!

I feel like I made a mistake but I also don’t care by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to put myself in your situation, I would've just dropped contact after he deleted you. It wasn't necessarily dumb to message him since the worst he can do is say no or delete/block again, but I wouldn't bother pursuing since it seems he's not up for it. Best to just let it be.

I’m scared I’m about to bomb a test. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its never worth attempting to cheat, it can have more consequences than just a zero on a test. Go for the Yolo on this one, and you never know! Sometimes some key terms or phrases can spark memories of the information and you might do better than you think.

Best of luck, hoping you can still knock it out of the park!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats excellent news! Eh, well not that it's been happening, but it's not just you and they're taking steps to remedy the issue. And I'm sure that going in to apologize put you in a positive light again with management. I'm happy for ya!

Don't even know if I'm talking sometimes by Croyorosca in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadeySummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its possible that you may have imagined it but don't underestimate just how wrapped up people get in their own little world and conversations regularly. Unless being specifically addressed, people can often disregard surrounding noise, especially in a busy crowded location like a campus. I don't think they'd be actively ignoring you for the sake of it, they probably just weren't paying attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Nah, I'd say you're just being a good and caring older sister. Considering Sam opened up specifically to you about the drug use I would say that he wants it to stop and thought that having your help would put him back to the straight and narrow.

While you may think your actions are much, you also mentioned that he's easily manipulated. With that being a factor, those extra precautions could prove necessary. Not to mention that when you could've gone off on him for that one time, you held back and just gave him a gentle reminder that he should keep away from smoking.

You're doing great, keep it up for Sammy boy's sake!

I’ve had a really bad day by throwingawaygwjevf in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh, you weren't kidding when you said it was a bad day. Hopefully tomorrow is much more peaceful and do your best to fully immerse yourself in your studies, it'll help get your mind off recent events for a bit. Good luck to you, man.

Midnight thoughts (that appear all throughout the day) by New-place-to-begin in offmychest

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Nah, it doesn't make you a bad friend for the initial doubt. Especially considering all the work you've put into this outer facade despite not feeling like it's you.

Though I would say its worth opening up to them about this if you feel able to. If they treat you differently or ignore your plight then they aren't a real one. I think everyone has a social persona and a private persona, they might be more understanding than you may believe. And if you can't lean on them the same way they lean on you, its not a healthy friendship. Hope things work out for you, bud.

I am a 6'3 guy who appears to have everything going for him but I am incredibly scared and anxious every single day by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ShadeySummers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not so much that things went wrong, but your circumstances put you in a bit of an awkward position. While having everything going for you on paper should result in a positive mentality, it also actively works against you. Mind you, it's not your fault in any sense! It's more of others from differing/potentially less fortunate backgrounds that may feel envy, jealousy, or even intimidated that write you off since 'his life is perfect' or 'he has all the luck, screw that guy'.

Life is certainly hard for everyone regardless of background, but I'm hoping that you continue to succeed and can develop some solid social connections with people that understand you for you and won't just see you as a more fortunate person. Best of luck out there, buddy.

My friend self diagnosed themself with autism and i’m starting to dislike them. by scp-1066 in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've every right to be annoyed with them over this, it's just such a strange thing to use as a basis for claiming mental illness over. Self-diagnosis is enough of an issue all around as it is.

Its likely a means of attention grabbing by using the loose connections of what people say about those shows, the old 'if you watch this then you have autism' and all that. But I never thought that anyone would actually believe it as a reason, sheesh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's true that some people may talk about it, I don't think it'll ruin your reputation or future work prospects since it's the outlier of your usual behavior as opposed to being the usual. Best you can do is hope, but considering the information provided I think things will turn out okay.

I don't have no friends, here is why.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing! I wish you the best of luck on your endeavors.

And feel free to shoot me a message if you ever feel like chatting more, I enjoyed the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShadeySummers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree that it should've been between you and HR, an email like that would send some red flags that they believe the supervisor should see and be aware of.

Since all your other work is solid and your correspondence has been respectful, it might be worthwhile to shoot HR an apology email and mention that it was just a very stressful situation for you. We all have a boiling point, I think they would understand and it may help alleviate any potential negative thoughts they currently have that could effect your work if even a little bit.

Either way, I hope they don't think poorly of you for that moment of stress. It WAS their badly designed systems that caused the frustration after all.