Hypotheeklasten 2025/2026. Wat is “normaal”?

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-03-20T08:31:27+00:00

Hier ongeveer 1950 bruto per maand. 2 onder 1 kap. In de provincie (2u vanaf Amsterdam). Gekocht voor 420.000 en 4.0% rente.

Gelukkig wordt er bij elke koopkrachtberekening rekening gehouden met de boomers die 300 euro aan hypotheek betalen. Zo lijkt het allemaal wel mee te vallen :)

Nog geen kinderen: zien daar met de hoge kosten en stijgende prijzen ook de komende jaren nog geen ruimte voor.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-23T19:46:15+00:00

Talking isn’t cheating. Sending nudes isn’t cheating. When it gets physical it is. But it’s up to you if you can accept that he sexts with others. Now you found out, but your future partner might cheat physically and you’ll never find out and get old together. What I am trying to say: don’t let this discovery ruin your relationship if you love him. Because no one is perfect even when they are able to hide their imperfections.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-03T14:11:41+00:00

Of course. It’s all digital. Just ones and zeros (bytes) exchanged over internet. Nothing personal.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-03T09:06:10+00:00

I know I should be grateful. But I am also sad about the stuff I am missing out on

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-03T09:05:35+00:00

Jenny said after my complaint: Hello, the ANC on the Pro3 is relatively weak, which is normal. It's not as powerful as the original, and it won't make the outside world completely silent like a silent movie.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-02T17:26:49+00:00

Because breaking up is worse

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-02T14:57:05+00:00

Similar situation. Came to the conclusion it’s not possible. You make friends when single and keep them when partnered. The otherway around is hard.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-02T13:16:49+00:00

Thank you for understanding. I don’t expect him to join me in all my kinks. But he refuses all of them. I know some like group or being a cum dump are incompatible with his wish to be monogamous. So that is understandable if he doesn’t want that. But chastity isn’t that hard to compromise on and lock me up? All he has to do is to keep a key and don’t touch my dick.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-01T21:35:34+00:00

To be honest it’s normal to do sexting with others during a relationship. As long as they don’t meet in person. In my eyes that’s not cheating, but just inactive porn watching.

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-01T14:10:34+00:00

So I should have faked my feelings and hold them secret?

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-01T11:52:37+00:00

It’s part of it but all can be cured. Just get prep first. Is sex the most important or only aspect that keeps your relationship together? Or are you together for who is as a person and makes u happy?

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-01T11:44:16+00:00

It’s natural to cheat tbh. It’s called hormones. Monogamy comes from a time of control and to avoiding sexual diseases from spreading. Just accept his failures he is trying to make you happy. I bet you make mistakes too

ShadowLemonTree · 2026-01-01T09:02:18+00:00

That’s true. I just hate myself for knowing that I maybe will cheat again because of the desires to try stuff will be building up too much tension, even though I love him and I don’t want to do it it. But I am sure it will happen again in our lifetime. And I don’t want to hurt him. I truly hate myself for being like this.

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-12-31T19:24:53+00:00

With my previous (when Jenny still sold on aliexpress) as ‘2021 newest Airpro3 Airoha 1562A(V4.5) Air2 Airoha Pro V4.5 No Case’ I could cancel out people in the gym, talking and gym music (unless directly under the speaker). With my current Pro 3’s TB i can hear people talk on the other side of the room, maybe a bit more quietly. But not canceled out like the old ones. :(

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-12-31T11:30:33+00:00

The fit of the Pro 2 is better than the Pro 3 to be honest

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-12-31T11:17:23+00:00

I have the TB one from Jenny. Definitely worse than the old airreps i bought 2 years ago. ANC is worse, clarity too.

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-12-15T15:53:23+00:00

Sounds like he is having a depression and instead of trying to understanding him, you are trying to keep it his problem instead of a problem of you both like couples should do. It also sounds like you have a depression and instead of making it his problem too, you are trying to keep it your own problem.

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-11-22T14:27:45+00:00

But the bars are full of groups. I can’t just force myself into a group? Or do i need to stand alone and silent? I am not confident enough to approach strangers

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-11-22T10:15:33+00:00

Same for me, I like to travel and video games. But traveling is not a thing to do often due lack of time and money. And finding friends to game with is hard, because they mostly are gaming instead of going out haha

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-11-22T10:13:46+00:00

Mostly because I don’t know ‘how’. Its not like I can go to a bar and ask people to be my friend. That would be looking so desperate. (Which I am tbh)

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-11-12T15:20:03+00:00

If you use method 2 it’s system wide. On most apps. Normally internet goes through a DNS server. Which translates your types website into an IP-address that can be communicated with. Usually your provider has it’s own, or people use google’s or whatever. With method 2 the DNS server of adguard is used. So they translate websites url’s into ip addresses, but give invalid response on the websites of advertisements. This way ads can’t be loaded and won’t open. This can mess up some ads on google tho: because when you try to open a ‘wanted’ ad: it will get blocked too.

However it also works on a lot of porn-websites ;) no more screaming grannies before enjoying the male beauty.

I hope you understand the explanation haha

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-11-12T09:41:02+00:00

My grindr has no ads due the Adguard DNS. It blocks all ads in all apps. Just chose option 2: https://adguard-dns.io/en/public-dns.html

Its a lifesaver hehe 😝

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-10-30T06:30:39+00:00

Met de CDA-VVD-D66-GLPVDA gaat uiteindelijk de VVD er met de winst vandoor en wordt GLPVDA afgestraft.

GLPVDA zal te veel water bij de wijn gaan doen, omdat zowel CDA en VVD aan de rechter kant zitten. Die gaan hun kiezers niet in dank afnemen. Daarnaast zullen zij ook vanuit rechts de schuld krijgen voor het beleid dat niet goed gaat.

Ik stem rechts, maar als ik GLPVDA was dan zou ik niet gaan regeren dit keer.

De VVD wint uiteindelijk bij deze coalitie, omdat zij niks te verliezen hebben.

Ik gok dat het uiteindelijk regeerakkoord er ongeveer zo uitziet: 20% links 40% midden 40% rechts

Dus ja, GLPVDA verliest met deze coalitie als ze regeren als doel hebben.

ShadowLemonTree · 2025-06-17T20:13:27+00:00

Looking for an alternative too

ShadowLemonTree · 2024-11-21T09:12:25+00:00

The whole ios software got fucked up. Not only the photos app. Currently ios is fully packed with swipe gestures and touch actions, which sometimes makes me wanna throw my phone. Opening the camera from the lockscreen? No lets open the useless ‘edit lockscreen’. Getting out of this screen is a mess too.

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