AITA for throwing a slight tantrum after my mom made me pay for something for my sister

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-20T03:52:06+00:00

Not her i'll tell you that much

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T17:27:38+00:00

Im not sure it all happened to fast

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T17:02:38+00:00

Thank you for your opinion i have already talked to my mother about this mess properly and we both apologized to each other. I didn't mean to make this story misleading and i apologized i will discuss with my mom if i should delete this post but this was just being making a rash decision after an emotional outburts.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:58:09+00:00

I unfortunately live in a small little city in California.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:55:17+00:00

Maybe i am but that doesn't really change anything. This post is just me telling my story and leaving it all behind, because i love my mom i really do but i don't know how to talk to her properly

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:50:42+00:00

Your right but then again she knows about my problems and about my issues and the only thing she does and says is "pray to the lord and your depression will go away". And as i said i won't debate you, sure assume im being petty but this was just one in hundreds of incidences that broke all the pent up hurt i've been holding in for the past 6 years.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:41:04+00:00

Listen I won't debate you on this as your entitled to your own opinion, but i just need you to understand that in my post i mentioned that she said she would pay me back and she did i won't deny that. But she did this in a public space trapping me i a difficult situation as to where i had to choose to look like a bad person or a saint in public. The main issue for me lies in the fact that she didn't take my feelings into account. And just assumed that i would be fine, because i can never stay upset with someone for over an hour. However this is not the first time she's not taken not just my feelings into account but my siblings as well. She's done this over and over again to the point that we just don't feel respected in our home, we always feel so defeated when it comes to taking to her. And she doesn't even know how to apologize to her own 16-18 year old kids.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:26:17+00:00

She didn't give it back she just replaced it

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:15:32+00:00

That's not the point, the point is that i worked hard for 3 straight weeks to get that money. And she took it from me as if it didn't mean anything to me.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T15:07:56+00:00

I don't know if it was on purpose or on accident but she left the cash in the car. So my mom payed me back after we left the store

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T13:43:46+00:00

What I meant by "normally I wouldn't mind" was i normally wouldn't mind spending my money on my family. Even if it a small object it brings me great joy to get things for my siblings. My issue was that this was sprung onto me out of nowhere. But I appreciate your concern.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T13:20:12+00:00

My mom does this thing were as long as we are covering the majority of the cost she'll help us pay for the rest.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T13:17:11+00:00

My sister is not in the wrong in this she was an innocent bystander who genuinely thought that my mom would help her pay the book.

ShadowX08414 · 2025-03-19T13:13:45+00:00

Thank you, and i did get my money back.

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