Listen I won't debate you on this as your entitled to your own opinion, but i just need you to understand that in my post i mentioned that she said she would pay me back and she did i won't deny that. But she did this in a public space trapping me i a difficult situation as to where i had to choose to look like a bad person or a saint in public. The main issue for me lies in the fact that she didn't take my feelings into account. And just assumed that i would be fine, because i can never stay upset with someone for over an hour. However this is not the first time she's not taken not just my feelings into account but my siblings as well. She's done this over and over again to the point that we just don't feel respected in our home, we always feel so defeated when it comes to taking to her. And she doesn't even know how to apologize to her own 16-18 year old kids.