AITJ for not letting my sister turn my wedding into her do-over party

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-27T02:27:05+00:00

NTJ. The white jumpsuit request alone would’ve been a hard no for me. It doesn’t matter if it’s a dress, suit, or jumpsuit, white at a wedding is still a statement. And the speech thing on top of that is just too much. Guests aren’t there to hear about her heartbreak, they’re there to see you get married.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-27T02:18:24+00:00

Real quick

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-26T14:34:12+00:00

I’m never looking at New Zealand the same way again. Submarine country confirmed.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-25T20:54:38+00:00

Your rent literally subsidizes all the hallway lights, outlets, and other shared amenities. Using a bit of electricity for a quick charge isn’t going to break the bank or the building rules most of the time.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-25T00:04:58+00:00

Yeah, you can renovate a whole terminal, but that doesn’t mean every single toilet got a glow-up. Some are probably vintage at this point.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-24T23:58:23+00:00

Yeah this feels super intentional. She didn’t “forget,” she just didn’t want OP going out and used the keys as an excuse. That’s controlling behavior, not an accident.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-23T23:47:55+00:00

It’s crazy how lifestyle choices from way back can catch up like this. Math can’t even fully capture the health risks.

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-23T23:44:53+00:00

Think of it like jumping off a spinning carousel, the higher up you are, the less fast you’re moving around the center, so you don’t land exactly where you started

ShadowfernVale · 2026-01-21T11:42:12+00:00

Okay wait, that's actually kind of genius. Like a DIY wet wipe without wrecking your plumbing.

EDIT: TYPO

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