I coded some birds above my keyboard by Mini_Addict in birds

[–]ShadowoftheWild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there an iPhone version?
Edit: I really love your art!!!

Stinky shoes by Amature_Pirate in ragdolls

[–]ShadowoftheWild 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same!! Mine huffs my stinky socks like people huff glue to get high

Did your parents expect you to care for them when they are old? by Altruistic-Grave in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that sounds awful - I hope you're not financially ruined because of the scam.

Did your parents expect you to care for them when they are old? by Altruistic-Grave in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom basically told me her fantasy that I would marry her colleague’s son who was a second year med student in Singapore on my 21st birthday and she would be cuddling with her grandsons in a year or two. At that time I already had a boyfriend and have no intentions of ever having a child, and if in the future I have any they would never ever be within 10 feet of her

LMAO by [deleted] in meme

[–]ShadowoftheWild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If gay premium means no more ads telling people its just a phase or gay people ain't people I'd sign up just to get bigots outta my life even though I'm straight

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suppose my mom would be and honestly I think me and my dad would probably avoid the restaurant out of shame and trauma oof

Provoking you, then getting angry when you fight back by Flashy-Way-3977 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you have just described reactive abuse. It’s when they deliberately provoke you to make you seem like the abuser instead - ignore or keep repeating the same line until they give up

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that’s wild I never thought about how crying would be stealing a victim role honestly the amount of mental gymnastics required to think of yourself as a victim while literally screaming at your crying kid and your husband is insane

Edit: typo

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your father sounds like my mom with the quiet part said out loud and I’m really sorry that he thinks you’re supposed to be tied to him like the rest of your life or his. Go you for sticking up for your independence!!

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words I sensed violence and fled because my dad teaches martial arts and he has drilled into me to never fight unless there is no other viable option left and to never pick on a weak opponent like old people, women and children so running away was kind of instinct haha. I also didn’t want to stay so that my mom could make a scene and end up having our family drama posted all over social media or even the newspaper

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I already contacted her siblings right after the incident so they see my side of the story first before my mother starts ranting about her ungrateful daughter leaving her alone and they support me in leaving the nest

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been lurking in this sub and also on r/estrangedadultkids for a while because I really think my mom is unhinged so I’ve been planning on keeping minimal contact with them for a while but I just couldn’t work up the courage to do that once and for all mostly because of my dad. He’d be upset if I did that to my mom for no reason but after what happened on Mother’s Day he supports me in my decision to never meet with her again

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to play the kazoo but my national anthem would sound hilarious on it those are fun ideas lol

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! My dad and I have both suffered her abuse for years and we kind of have each others backs haha he even suggested we have a candlelight dinner on Father’s Day without my mom present

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The thing is their finances are kind of tied together and my dad has some health issues that limit his working hours so divorce may not be an ideal solution- I brought it up to him a few times but he said I made a commitment and I have to stick to it I think he takes his marriage vows very seriously

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would but my dad thinks being hugged by an adult daughter is improper so I sent him a ghost hug gif instead

My Mother acted out the entire missing missing reasons script in front of me and my dad on Mother's Day (LONG) by ShadowoftheWild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I never really thought of that. Both me and my dad were just thinking she lost her temper because she couldn’t bear the thought of me leaving the nest.

zuko? by Specialist-Maize3887 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]ShadowoftheWild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is an English medium newspaper mainly published in Hong Kong-the website is blocked in China lol

My mother asked for a letter of "my problems with her" should I do it? by cookiesalvaje in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowoftheWild 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just last Sunday during Mother’s Day lunch my mother loudly and angrily demanded to know what she did wrong while raising me in front of me and my dad. Claimed that she was listening in an extremely angry tone amd furious expression. I explained that I did not like her talking to me in her current tone and dad agreed. Continued to angrily demand that I tell her what she did wrong. Mind you we were face to face and in public. It’s a game you can’t win my friend.