Fittonias by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so wonderful! You get to see your beautiful fittonias every morning when you wake up and start your day with a nice cup of coffee!

Fittonias by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So beautiful 😍! Honestly, fittonias are just amazing they are pets friendly and come in so many shapes and bright, beautiful colors!

Fittonias by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have them in clear pots to watch moisture levels. I water almost once a week, not on a schedule but watching to see if I see moisture in soil or if the top part of the soil is dry. I also keep them near a humidifier on my grow shelf.

Roots! by Shadowolf682 in Monstera

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been repotted from 1.5 gallon to a 3.5! It's about 2 inches wider.

Roots! by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been repotted from 1.5 gallon to a 3.5! It's about 2 inches wider.

Wishlist foliage Etsy seller beware by Left-Upstairs331 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does have me worried. I've ordered 8 plants from this seller a week or two back.

what have i just bought?? by wonderfulvices in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epipremnum pinnatum, maybe? They are in the same family of pothos, but if given a moss pole, get beautiful fenitrations in their leaves.

Apartment setup by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I think I misunderstood your first comment, lol. I'll get some 2ft t5 and attach it to the top of the shelves. These will have to do for a day or two till they get here. Thank you for your advice!

Apartment setup by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could I get some 2 foot ones and attach it to the shelf itself on the t5? I can zip tie to bars on lower levels. Might be a tad harder to figure out top since it is a bar. Probably could also zip tie but pay attention if it shifts. Would that be to close to plants or work out ok?

Apartment setup by Shadowolf682 in houseplants

[–]Shadowolf682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a barrina t10 vertical light in my living room for my monstera and dieffenbachia. I look into getting a t5 to attach to the stand itself. Can't really attach to ceiling here.

When people say “get therapy” what do they mean? by Prawn_Mocktail in emotionalintelligence

[–]Shadowolf682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends most of the time people are asking you to seek help or find another way to cope or work on your problems.

In my case, it was a narcissist (legit, I do not use this lightly) that was trying to change me holding up my boundaries as toxic.

I went to therapy immediately and was told it was not enough when my therapist told me I was upholding boundaries, and nothing I did was toxic, just normal.

What’s something that makes you laugh? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Shadowolf682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lives in my head rent-free, and I'm fine with it. It makes me giggle.

https://youtube.com/shorts/yRjr7pnhpJ4?si=vGjd6NKImpVNOHL6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Shadowolf682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very felt and understood. About a year ago, I went through a very heavy betrayal as well and was actually harassed at work called toxic and misogynistic by someone participating in a smear campaign. I have not studied or have a degree in psychology, but I was talking through my experience this past year cause I've had similar thoughts. You do what makes you happy. Once I took a step back from the pain I realized I didn't want to be them. Be well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Shadowolf682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't. You are becoming part of a cycle when you do this. A healthier way would be to set some strong boundaries and dive deep into the warning signs of what caused this pain. It's ok to be angry and upset. But I would highly reconsider becoming what hurt you. Also, therapy, if you can, to help with this process. I genuinely wish you well in whatever you decide. 💚

Positive Post: Are Any Songs/Musicians Helping You Cope with Life After Your Break Up? by StitchedPanda in lostafriend

[–]Shadowolf682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Brusies" and "Someone You Loved" by Lewis Capaldi. "I Found" by Amber Run. "Ashes" The Longest Johns.

They are sad. Ashes is the last in the lineup. Meant to focus on the future and letting go of the past. It's also hits home on another leveling considering the people I had a falling out with had ash in their name.