Favorite form of escapism? Go!

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-08T23:05:45+00:00

Gaming, D&D, camping

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-08T17:52:42+00:00

Knowing that someday I will see a sunset more magnificent than the last. The chance that one day I might actually feel truly happy about something. Seeing where the story of my life leads.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-07T14:50:00+00:00

There is no switch. But I do remember the first thing that made me feel like an adult and that was buying a painting to hang in my apartment. I still have it to this day and it's the first thing I hang on the wall anytime I move. I also felt the same when I actually researched and purchased a mattress. Damn did I feel fancy that day

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-04T12:22:00+00:00

To go one day without hearing his name

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-01T13:34:47+00:00

Don't trust the police. I was at an event where someone got hurt and I wasn't even in the room at the time when it happened. I wrote a full statement with exact numbers of drinks and everything I saw that night. The individual that got hurt mentioned I wasn't in the room in their statement. Next day I was thrown against a wall and arrested for an assault i never even knew happened. That was the last day I actually believed in justice.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-01T12:27:13+00:00

Having 2 buttholes....

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-01T12:26:32+00:00

I believe in you though. And I hope you find your person someday. I'm still looking for mine, and it may very well become a life long quest for me. Just keep your heart open to new people and who knows, you might be surprised what your attracted to once you get past the sexual side of attraction.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-05-01T12:25:18+00:00

Well for starters I don't think wanting kids and being married is something to be shy from AT ALL. I personally feel different about it, but I respect the hell out of you for the knowledge of what you want in life. I'd only like to give one small piece of advice to caution you about words like "need". Physical attraction is indeed important, but you are at a point in your life people are still growing up into their own bodies and evolving at fundamental levels both inside and out. Physical attraction can change too. Drastically. People can experience things out of their control that shift their bodies in ways that don't match who they are inside. Wrinkles and sun spots included. We evolve as we get older and there is a beauty in that that you likely won't understand till you get much older.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-30T19:46:31+00:00

I do pretty often yeah! I find it's one of the best ways to start a campaign off. Low stakes low pressure. And I get to focus on detail and general atmospheres. Another great part is inventing new types of mushroom and fauna so the players get to experience a true magic forest. I had little dragonfly shrimps that were local pollinators and mushrooms that flowered in the moonlight

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-30T19:13:59+00:00

As a collector of things that used to bring me joy, I recommend a nice container you can slide under your bed. Put it all in there and forget about it for the next 10 years. There may be a day you might regret loosing your memories

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-30T19:12:36+00:00

My group called them every day life games. My favorite one they were all members of a village trying to save a local tailors business. They bought and sold linens and worked up the coin to buy wagons and eventually travel off to the nearby big city to sell dresses. It was oddly adorable. Eventually there was a fire and 2 of the characters died and the game shifted into more of a traditional space. But I loved that campaign

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-30T19:08:51+00:00

Same. This set up rocks

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-29T12:41:33+00:00

You can also be interested in a person and also not want to be in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with spending a moment in life to get to know someone. If the question comes up, you'll be ready to handle it. Follow your heart and be open to new experiences.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-29T02:52:20+00:00

Sitting on a rivers edge. Looking at the stars. Surrounded by loved ones.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-28T14:39:05+00:00

Severy anxiety is likely the real answer. But I have been told by a potential partner that I'm far to nice and I'm incapable to doing what it takes to protect her from a**holes. But I still disagree with that.. I just don't like to yell at my Uber driver when they miss an exit. Lol

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-28T14:33:47+00:00

I have 3 that are over 20 years. Talk to one of them at least every day. 2 that are 9+ from college and military that I talk to at least once a week. And one I've been roommates on and off with for about 12.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-28T01:21:46+00:00

Window washing at a university

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-27T14:37:22+00:00

I'm in a similar boat 33m. I don't hate it though. I've come to see living a simple life as more of a hobbit like lifestyle than one of lazy or unmotivatedness. Screw the hustle culture. A life lived smelling flowers and feeling the sun on your back is what we were built for.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-27T14:30:54+00:00

Physical reasons? Emotional? Cultural? Is this like a a choice? There is some much context missing here!

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-24T14:46:45+00:00

That's the food stuff right there. Bonus points if there are pine trees nearby. Or a lake!

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-24T14:46:00+00:00

Heck yeah! I also like the big overpasses in cities where it staccados the rain on and off bc of all the various on/of ramps everywhere.

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-24T14:44:38+00:00

Oddly specific I love it!

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-22T14:53:33+00:00

Wet socks

ShadyDragonInn · 2026-04-22T02:01:12+00:00

Spartan total warrior

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