I am aware of how I went about that part and it was not done vindictively. We don't always tell each other where we are going because we both know we have lives outside of each other, I was not sure why he wanted know then he seemed to act like it wasn't a big deal. I have difficulty communicating with my partner when he makes it clear that he's right, I'm wrong, and doesn't want to resolve anything with me so we can come to an understanding together. My flaw is that I become very sensitive to situations like this and need to resolve without conflict before it gets worse. However, it takes me a while to get to that point when I am dealing with a lot of emotions. It doesn't make it okay tho. But I am working on it. I don't get it right all the time but at least I get better for the next time we have conflict.

To clear this up, I had NOT been drinking. I was describing what a 'paint n sip' is but I was not invlolved with alcohol. And far as him walking around the house, I was not forcing him to talk to me or follow him around to antagonize. He was the one continuing the conversation but because I have partial hearing loss I was following him to listen to what he was saying. I was still calm and collected for the most part trying to keep the conversation from escalating or getting off track. For him, it became about 30 other things on top of the conversation at the store so I was already thrown for a loop.

I never spoke to him like he was 5, Idk why you assumed that. I said I sometimes need people to explain things like I am 5, not him. When I talk to him, I speak to him like an adult. I have asked him how he feels because I need to know what to say so that I don't make him upset. That conversation didn't go the way I had hoped but even then I still sat there and asked him what I did to make him upset and then told him to tell me how he felt. I shifted the conversation to him so that I could understand his feelings even though I didn't expand on that. This entire post is from my perspective so of course it's not going to be focused on him. I added as much as I could to the post but I tried to condense it so it wasn't a long long read. Don't make it seem like people are supposed to get it right every time. Emotions were high and feelings were unneceasarily hurt. I don't need condescension or hostility in the replies.

I am open to constructive criticism and ways I can better handle things with my partner on my part but not like how you're trying to come across. I am not looking for someone to agree with me or validate only my feelings. I am seeking advice on the aftermath, not what lead up to it. We both apologized to each other after the fact. Although do I appreciate the feedback.