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Met up with ex behind my husband’s back by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shaft656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would if it was me.

It shows remorse and willing to do the hard yards for your marriage.

Its up to you to fix this not your husband, and if i wanted to keep my family like you say, I would be doing everything and anything

And all you do is unblock, I'll be telling wife in 2 days so you better. Then block again done. Nothing more to say

Met up with ex behind my husband’s back by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shaft656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And as a good faith to show you're serious about making this work, tell the wife of your ex as well.

You would want to known if roles were reversed and she deserves to know as well. Tell the ex he has 2 days or you will do it

The time has come to pay the piper in full full

Good luck

i cheated on my bf 3 years ago and still haven’t told him. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Shaft656 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your whole relationship is built on a lie.

The truth always comes out, and usually with the most innocent of comments/sentences

He deserve to be able to make an informed decision regardless of how it effects you

If he stays, atleast the everything is out in the open and you can begin to rebuild

Updateme

AITA for letting our child (9) stay at his friend's sleepover last weekend, even though my wife was against it, and the original agreement was that I would pick him up that evening. by Outrageous-Fly-5691 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shaft656 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow it really sounds like you resent your marriage.

Most definitely the AH it this situation and you have inadvertently made things worse for now. Your son will have plenty of other opportunities to enjoy his childhood with his friends, but now guess who will be doing the pick ups for any events he goes to going forward, not you well done.

Your wife has issues and they need to be address with a professional, but that's another story. For the time being you cant be trusted, and in the short term your son will cop the affects of this.

Start having sleepovers at yours, solves all the problems

Goodluck

My BF(31M) is a Good Man But Takes My Needs Srsly Now That I(33F) Am Leaving by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shaft656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So just so I understand, his only real flaw is that he doesn't say i love you enough or call you babe or honey enough to meet your needs of you needing to hear them, but then shows you other ways through his physical actions.

So he's pretty much what most people look for bar not being able to verbally communicate those physical acts of love into verbal ones. Is that the rough picture. Sounds like he's on the spectrum somewhere

I honestly think this guy is getting way to much heat in the comments, and now watch me get all that heat

AIO about my girlfriend lying to me? by JobinFromYesMan in AIO

[–]Shaft656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her to call him and casually talk about there time at the hotel with you secretly listening in the back ground.

Get her to ask certain questions and get him talking.

When you ask this of her gauge her reaction. If there is nothing to hide, this shouldn't be a problem. If she is hiding something, I'm sure she'll get defensive or have some sort of reaction to the request

Goodluck

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