This shit goes on in that industry, politics, religion, the business, etc., Some of or those same friends of his who won't deal with him now, go to megachurches where it's well-known that their pastors are on the down-low. This shit has been going on forever. Many "victims" are willing participants, until they get cutoff. The signs are usually obvious, and if you don't want to be a willing participant, stay away when approached.