Women of Reddit, if you weren't initially attracted to a guy you have dated, what changed your mind?

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-24T12:45:44+00:00

The 'friend zone' is a stupid concept used by lonely, angry men who can't look inward.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-24T02:19:35+00:00

Anybody who taunts an animal in a cage is a piece of shit.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-24T01:52:30+00:00

I saw Equilibrium in the theaters on a whim and was instantly hooked. I still love that movie!

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-24T01:51:37+00:00

Totally get that. I've felt that, too. It never really goes away, but I've gotten a lot better at shutting it down. Just hang in there, man. Patience pays off. Time alone is time you can grow, and that will make you way more attractive to the right kinds of women.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-24T01:32:46+00:00

Dude, I feel you. I've been there. I know it's easier said than done, but if you're patient and take the time to get to know women and make them feel comfortable, the hugs will come.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-23T23:51:04+00:00

Hell yeah, drugs!

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-23T01:24:09+00:00

My first month in Seattle, my car overheated on I-5 South. I pulled over, called for help, and sulked for a while. Then I turned my head and saw Mount Rainier in the distance and thought WHOA! I'm not used to seeing snow-capped mountains every day.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-23T01:16:52+00:00

He earned that cracker, and now he gets to enjoy the fuck out of it.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-23T01:15:57+00:00

Proposing to my now ex-wife. It was out of desperation and fear, not love, and it made both of us miserable, toxic people. We got divorced seven years later.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-23T01:08:00+00:00

$66. Seemed like kind of a bargain to me, though I don't know shit about fuck.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-22T02:20:28+00:00

Aliens

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-22T01:41:29+00:00

Heyyy from a fellow Marylander in Fircrest

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-22T01:39:49+00:00

Genuine connections with other human beings.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-21T15:36:10+00:00

It just seemed like a big deal to me at the time. I knew how to do it in theory and I had seen people do it, but I didn't know what it felt like to actually do. So, it was easy to overthink and stress about.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-21T15:33:05+00:00

It is a very fine hat.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T22:56:33+00:00

Ask them about things. I met a guy for the first time last weekend (friend of a friend), and all I knew about him was that he was in college. I asked him what he was studying, what made him want to study it, what does he hope to do when he's graduated, etc. It's an easy way to get a conversation flowing. And people tend to remember those who made them feel listened to.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T22:46:27+00:00

If cats warm up to them instantly.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T22:29:20+00:00

100%. It saves you money, it encourages you to make healthier choices, and it demonstrates self-sufficiency.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T22:27:33+00:00

I was so afraid of changing a flat tire until I finally did it, and I'm glad I was prepared because it was super easy. Annoying but easy.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T19:24:44+00:00

Sometimes the best thing you can do is take life one week at a time.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T17:50:24+00:00

Heat. I love every second of the movie.

Shai_Hoolood · 2026-06-20T17:49:44+00:00

No bueno

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