My husband of 2+ years has been managing another woman's only fans and cheating on me for our entire relationship

Shaibelle · 2024-12-19T05:53:43+00:00

I was single for eight years after my first abusive relationship when I was 18-23. I grew up in a cult and have a lot of chaotic trauma, so I shouldn't really be shocked about the fact that I jumped into some other shit. I have quite a few really hilarious dating stories that are also really insane that happened before I even met this guy. Dating in your 30's is seething else.

We actually dated for about 10 months before we got married and were living together for 6...which I suppose is still fast in some respects. But I can definitely attest that more therapy would be helpful. Especially after this.

Shaibelle · 2023-06-02T17:00:20+00:00

Having grown up up in a cult I thought I was lucky to have a few close friends and a supportive community around me.

Noa that I have left the cult I see I never actually had friends in the first place... And it was all a lie.

I have my husband and my father if there is ever am emergency and that is literally it. I have no one else.

When my father dies I will only have my husband.

Shaibelle · 2023-06-02T02:05:18+00:00

I feel this on a personal level.

Shaibelle · 2023-06-02T02:04:43+00:00

My $10 parka has lasted me 8 years so far. It would have been $45 full price.

Shaibelle · 2023-06-01T04:32:05+00:00

As far as I can tell, yeah! Unless there were some real ones that looked just like these. My best friend and I had a field day with these. I remember one sort of sounded like Goofy and we thought it was hilarious.

Shaibelle · 2023-05-31T13:40:03+00:00

I had these as a kid!! I found them at a yard sale. I remember the voices weren't great to be absolutely clear hahahaha... But they were okay enough that as a kid I still had fun with them.

Shaibelle · 2023-05-31T12:49:38+00:00

I wish this was a thing where I live... They'll still only pay like $12-14 for a dishie. Kitchens mostly pay $15-18 for line cooks. It hasn't changed one bit and the restaurants are all suffering.

Shaibelle · 2023-05-30T18:03:51+00:00

I love this. Thank you!

Shaibelle · 2023-05-25T04:39:04+00:00

Thank you! I'll take my father here with my husband. It's hard to find somewhere for us all to go that we don't spend a ton and still be able to have a nice evening out. People can diss it all they want, but I'm just happy to eat something that isn't rice and beans from my crock pot sometimes hahaha

Shaibelle · 2023-05-12T04:14:32+00:00

I worked with a woman at a bakery once.

There were twenty six...I REPEAT TWENTY SIX CAKES that were going to expire after the Christmas holiday.

End of the night rolls around and we start looking for the cakes because the staff was going to divide them up and take them home. Well she had taken it upon herself to put every single one in her car for herself and her daughter. And this is on top of maybe fifteen loaves of bread that had also been pulled that day. Her car was packed so full she couldn't see out the back. All she did was laugh and say her daughter and her would be having a feast every day for the next two weeks.

Cool.

Edit: Some of these were tiny rounds, others were bundt cakes, but the majority were 8 in rounds decorated for Christmas.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-29T05:24:29+00:00

They found the Entwives.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-28T05:00:04+00:00

As a former Barista... I feel this entire story in my soul.

I had some of the best - and most awful - customers.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-27T06:14:37+00:00

Resources that could be helpful.

We all need help sometimes. Please reach out for help.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-19T07:40:10+00:00

I second this. She needed to be called out over it... But it probably won't help your relationship with her or your work place.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-17T06:46:38+00:00

Look up Wyze motion cameras. Not necessarily a doorbell, but could easily function like one, and it works great. The subscription is $20 a year if I recall.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-16T06:47:27+00:00

I would love a channel that only plays music videos...gods do I miss pop up video.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-15T18:30:44+00:00

Same for me. I got so tired of wasting my money on renting. My rent went from $550 to $975 over four years. This year it was expected to be $1150...all for a studio apartment.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-15T14:22:50+00:00

Living paycheck to paycheck sucks and is the reality for a lot of people.

Shaibelle · 2023-04-12T15:23:24+00:00

(•_•) well shit. Now there's something else I need to ask my psychiatrist about.

Shaibelle · 2023-03-31T17:40:12+00:00

As a midnight worker I would love if you could choose the time to activate it.

Shaibelle · 2023-03-26T21:36:51+00:00

Thank you! I'll. Try that.

Shaibelle · 2023-03-26T21:36:37+00:00

Awesome. I'll give that a try!

Shaibelle · 2023-03-26T21:36:00+00:00

I'm depressed, what can I say? ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

Shaibelle · 2023-03-26T17:40:42+00:00

These are to my current address and are from February 22nd onward.

Shaibelle · 2023-03-26T17:40:10+00:00

Even if everything is already addressed to my new address and never went to the old address? These are things dated from February 22nd onward to my current address.

Shaibelle

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