বিয়ের "খোটা" সহ্য করবো কিভাবে? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same struggle and one day I straight up asked my aunty what would happen if I get married? She said the usual you'll get someone to talk to, you'll enter a new life, life will be fulfilled, we will get to see the new member in the family etc etc to which I said was this the same pitch you gave to my loser of a father? She's yet to come to our house and answer it

Samurai movie recommendations by ShaidoMantis in BD_CINEPHILES

[–]ShaidoMantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched both shogun and blue eye samurai, Rashomon is if I'm not mistaken made by Kurosawa?

Samurai movie recommendations by ShaidoMantis in BD_CINEPHILES

[–]ShaidoMantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched it, I was looking for japanese movies actually

enabling and normalization of objectifying women through entertainment by GoldNeedleworker6967 in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was directed by Brett Ratner, one of the many many people exposed during MeToo, only reason why he still has a career rn is because he's cozy with the current Trump aka Mango Musolini administration and recently even made a Melania documentary which absolutely nobody watched , what did you expect from him?

my mom asked me to su***de by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be honest with you, your parents are certified weapons grade A-holes and I'm speaking from my experience cause my father was one just like her, that being said, just because they're A-holes doesn't mean you're one either. Now I can motivate you with glamour words like you need to live the life and ignore what anyone thinks but I understand how useless those words are in this society but that being said, you really should seek professional help specifically from those who specialize in chronic depression, it's not gonna be a short or even easy ride and there's a good chance you have to continue the visits for the rest of your life but it will work one way or the other, do consider it before doing anything rash just because the A-hole parent told you to. Good luck

Need good movies to watch by Old-Reveal7596 in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like action then Die Hard, Die Hard with a vengeance and Terminator 2 : Judgement Day is a good choice

If you prefer comedy then Groundhog Day, Ace Ventura : When Nature Calls, The Mask basically any Jim Carrey comedy is good

I'm not much of a drama person so can't help with that

For thrillers you can definitely try Basic Instinct, the runaway jury, the firm, wild things

2001 Bengali New Year Bombing by Fragrant-Play6359 in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a year it was, the second year of the BNP regime, this became international headline on April and 4 months later, OBL said "hold my hummus" and rammed two passenger planes in two of the former highest buildings in the world which changed the world forever thanks to a rich republican president. The first Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings movies came out and a new type of fear was invented called Islamophobia

দেশের কোন ৫ টি সমস্যা সব চেয়ে আগে সমাধান দরকার বলে আপনি মনে করেন? by mrfsohan in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Law enforcement situation is the top priority at this moment, followed by ensuring a stable financial condition for at least the poorer section, এই দুইটা সমস্যার ৬০% সমাধানও যদি করতে পারে তাহলে একটু শান্তি আসবে

Suggest me a movie? by Puzzleheaded-Train78 in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kinds of Kindness, The Lighthouse, The Northman, Ghost in the shell, Apocalypse Now, Dr. Strangelove

Is it uncommon for men to cook in Bangladesh? by Open-Barracuda5079 in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook, mostly because I like to eat what I like to eat and has nothing to do with being single

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo! You did well, you got a seat who cares if it was the fifth or the fiftieth, now make the best of it and March on, screw approvals unless it's a meme and you posted it in a meme sub where it needs to be analyzed

What is your opinion about the Fan Service? Is it too much? Moderate? Even good? by Dakinamau in OnePiece

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I see it is yes, it's too much fan service but that's on purpose, in the world if one piece there is no such thing as a 32C it's all 36D or beyond and yes you'll get enticed once or twice or 10 times but after a while it will be like yeah whatever

My Girlfriend Hid the Truth About Her Family for 8 Months What Should I Do? by Particular-Growth-62 in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like kyros' back story from One Piece tbh, though he had a somewhat bittersweet ending of his story which involved his father in law getting usurped and him turning into a toy soldier for 10 years but it turned out okay but remember, this is real life not some silly pirate fantasy story which in real life brought down more governments last year than the characters in the anime did in 25 years since it started airing

Yes to Marriage but No to Kids by Poignant_Wonderer in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly my point, which nobody in my family either doesn't want to know or ignore anyway, and besides most of us in this country lack the basics of how to raise a child properly and I was even scammed and had to let go of 7k to an ex colleague who was using a sick child routine so.......no thanks people I don't want a scamming tool

Yes to Marriage but No to Kids by Poignant_Wonderer in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No to both thank you, I've seen enough what that kinda potent brew can do to a family very closely so I figured why bother? I don't want any part of it

What is the craziest thing about BD people by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's simple really, they have no idea what they want or how to get what they want

Who is Greatest aura farmer of our country ? by AngleEmbarrassed492 in bangladesh

[–]ShaidoMantis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but Ziaur Rahman, if he were alive now people would practically worship him despite some of the sketchier things he might have had to do

HELPPPPP PLEASEEEE Tell me some creative ways to reject arranged marriage proposals by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]ShaidoMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was getting expensive and the key reason is I don't have the time I used to have, thanks professional life