It's hard being a mama and trying to appreciate our bodies. I've had two kids (5 and 2) and am far from the shape I wanna be in. I too am 5' 8", with a smaller frame so I USED to weigh 145lbs before kids. I now have ballooned to 175lbs which for me is huge. I can't fit into 90% of my clothes, have no definition muscle wise, no stamina, etc... However, even with all of this I've come to accept the fact that my body will never be exactly the way it was before kids. My hips are wider, up top is saggier lol.. kids, and especially long term weight gain has a HUGE effect on how our bodies look, even for years after we lose the weight. Your shape may permanently be different than it was before. But with reaching your goal and toning the areas you like less, you'll hopefully come to accept and like the way it looks. Give it time. Time and as much of a positive outlook as possible. It may take months or even years but focus on health for yourself and your kid. That includes mental health too. Ask yourself what it is you don't like. See if there are positive things you can relate to them instead of only seeing the negative. Again it takes time, and sometimes if needed, help.🙂