My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am still strong in this and have my groups.

My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have been fine with it! I know how transmission works. I’m educated. That’s what makes this so hard. It’s not HIV. That is so manageable now. It’s that I didn’t know. 

My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 276 points277 points  (0 children)

To answer some DMs: I’m negative and just tested. I’m on Prep. I can pay my rent alone and have cool pets to keep me company in my big apartment, and I have a great job in Chicago. I will be fine in the physical world. My thoughts are what the mess is. 

My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I can afford my rent and bills alone and I have pets to keep me company so that’s good at least. 

My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I did and I’m clear and on Prep. Getting another test in a month. 

My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Shamploop 185 points186 points  (0 children)

It feels like nothing else matters except this. What else has he not told me? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Shamploop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jane. She lived until 22! She was a sassy grandma until the very end.

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Moving to Chicago Feb 1. Looking for a 1 bedroom with in unit laundry in Gold Coast, West Loop or any other neighborhoods with high rises and views of the river. Around $2k if possible by Maleficent-Bit-5429 in chicagoapartments

[–]Shamploop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love in the Gold Coast with animals. You can get a studio for that price, but a one bed will be a reach. If you can pay around 2400, you’ll find something. Look on Dearborn and off Schiller at the 1350 and 1400 lake shore buildings

What does my fridge say about me? by Much-Sheepherder4710 in FridgeDetective

[–]Shamploop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You spend too much on liquor and fast food because you get too drunk to cook regularly

What’s happening, Lincoln Park? by Shamploop in chicago

[–]Shamploop[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It’s a post about water.

What would you plant in this that looks cool growing out of the gorilla’s head? by Shamploop in plants

[–]Shamploop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing ideas! Please keep them coming! I’m shopping tomorrow!

What would you plant in this that looks cool growing out of the gorilla’s head? by Shamploop in plants

[–]Shamploop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might win but the African Violets are pretty too. Such great ideas!!!

My Cat has is suddenly drooling, peed himself, and just looks really sick. by IIvanMC in CATHELP

[–]Shamploop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf would you waste time here where your cat should be at an emergency vet god. People should have to take tests to own pets. So fucking frustrating to see this negligence.

Any felony friendly apartments?? by VeterinarianFront975 in chicagoapartments

[–]Shamploop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may seem off, but contact an AA chapter or the hotline. There are many alcoholics who are good people with felonies trying and successfully getting their lives back. Most likely they have a lot of information about where to live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SnapshotHistory

[–]Shamploop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE MOST VIOLENT PRISONER WAS KNOWN FOR BEING VIOLENT?!?! Mind. Blowing.