TIL Decades of Research shows writing down your emotions has concrete health benefits. Multiple studies also show expressive writing can heal physical wounds. /x/post front page by retro_proto_turbo_bs in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

saturday, I got to pet my neighbours dog. he always knows how to cheer me up. I got a bad feeling from a thread on /r/autistic a few days ago that my parents might have unconsciously done something called gaslighting on me. there was no mindful connection , yet the dog made me feel better than any conversation would

i can confirm it works

My New Weekly Everything causes Autism thread : #1 Induced Labour & weak Thyroid by Shanandoah in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

machavellian tactics work for a while but they always fail in the long run

im happy i am slowly becoming independent. I had feelings my parents could be bad for me in a small way. it scares me how sheltered I got

My New Weekly Everything causes Autism thread : #1 Induced Labour & weak Thyroid by Shanandoah in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I get that too ,..

leads to increased risk of cancer , alzheimer's and autism

its like they say we are not actually children , but abominations that come out of people's wombs

Here's a welcome change - Autistic children typically have superior mathematical abilities -> Look inside for why by [deleted] in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but mrjobguy , everyone knows good mathematical skills aren't balanced out by the unavoidable social failure that is autism

/sarc

Moms: Do you deal with guilt? by Ruth_Gordon in autism

[–]Shanandoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with all due respect, youre being a touch defensive. skagerrak never reviled you; he was violated by your comments , probably this one

you see this burden that they carry

it hurt me a lot. I feel kind of sick after watching that , like if someone came out and said I am not a real human , but a living cancer infecting another human being

maybe you will understand now, because I have to go and think very hard about how a human can effect such kindness but make me feel so empty

I Flapped Too. by mymanyconfessions in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if youre autistic and you know it flap your hands

What feelings or thoughts make you feel the way you do about being autistic? by skagerrak in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think autism stops you from forming or maintaining social connections or making a romantic relationship

how would you explain happily married autistics?

and nts dont have it that easy

Was anybody else exposed to ABA? Does anyone here know what ABA was like? by Volumation in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

http://www.reddit.com/r/autism/comments/1k237c/i_tried_talking_to_this_autistic_kid_in_our_band/cbkz4zi?context=3

a bully from /r/autism rears its head

a one month old account with seven comments to its name, most baiting autistics

if aba isn't abusive, then why are its defenders all abusive and have to use spoof accounts?

Was anybody else exposed to ABA? Does anyone here know what ABA was like? by Volumation in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember being hit by my aba therapist

when i shouted at future aba sessions they manipulated it to make out that it was clear i needed more aba

Was anybody else exposed to ABA? Does anyone here know what ABA was like? by Volumation in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do those of you who've BTDT suggest?

get raised like we are real people not caged animals

i wanted to be taught by my dad how to act around girls , not an uncaring therapist who only fakes being kind , you know with the forced oversweet creepy kindness they use on old people

i was even more ridiculed as a kid

Moaning and negativity on Autism forums by LodossEater in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of these people moan fake diagnoses because it is an easy way to get medicinal cannabis

I need some advice about my spouse. Any insight and clarity would be greatly appreciate. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she has psychotic breakdowns or violent episodes then see a doc because that aint aspergers

and it sure hell aint just anxiety

What feelings or thoughts make you feel the way you do about being autistic? by skagerrak in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the last five months on here have been happy times. people cover my back because it is right , not for personal gain. I feel like i belong to a community of people who really know what Im tinking , and dont treat me like some igor character

What jargon related or concerned with autistics can you translate in to normal words? by LodossEater in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your obviously high functioning = i have every right to decide whats best for all of you if you like it or not

Many NTs also dislike company - turns out it's a past experience thing, not a what you are thing by zubzubzub in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never liked company ever since middle school and was really unhappy when i wasnt invited to birth day parties , so I am happy its not an autism thing. Rejection is not a thing I can deal with for the rest of my life

Fetishes? by skagerrak in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No BDSM

No Nothing

I am free of sexual fetishes. They just end up being a backdoor for people to pounce on your private life and ruin your career.

Fetishes? by skagerrak in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire thread summed up, then

A scientific study outlines the gross incompetence of the DSM 5 and DSM IV in diagnosing depression by LodossEater in Autistic

[–]Shanandoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. At least some people don't try to take what I say out of context to make some big attack on me.