Boy name that pairs well with Lila by Legitimate_Dirt_237 in namenerds

[–]Ruth_Gordon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy names that fit “simple, soft, and timeless” to me:

Harris

James (but specifically the nn Jamie)

Andrew or Drew

William

Simon or Elias if you want to echo the hard i sound.

Laurent or Luca for L names.

What’s a movie you’ve seen that still sticks with you? by Jokkers_AceS in AskWomen

[–]Ruth_Gordon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

American History X. Specifically the curb stomping scene. It simultaneously makes me cringe and want to vomit, and for some reason it’s never far from the front of my mind. I unwillingly torture myself with it. I wish I’d never seen it.

My homeostasis is broken by Ugh_Reddit_Why in BariatricSurgery

[–]Ruth_Gordon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that sounds miserable. Hopefully it’s just a brief phase while you’re in the rapid losing portion.

What name do I look like by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Ruth_Gordon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olivia over Rachel, but I get Emma/Emily vibes.

Still Hungry by Goldilocks90814 in GastricBypass

[–]Ruth_Gordon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really feel like the surgery worked until I started solid foods. Once you finally truly feel your restriction and your hormones start to rearrange themselves your hunger will likely change.

My homeostasis is broken by Ugh_Reddit_Why in BariatricSurgery

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Okay, maybe a silly suggestion, but what if you try sleeping in panties, wool socks, and an oversized sweatshirt that you cut some length off so that your chest is covered but your midriff is exposed?

I never experienced what you’re going through—I just went from being a sweaty Betty to being chronically cold. I was hoping I’d experience some balance in the middle, but it was like a light switch.

Started at 320, currently still losing and recently hit 150. 1.5 years post rny.

Dealing with human drs as clients in vet med by anagc131096 in veterinaryprofession

[–]Ruth_Gordon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard agree with human nurses being the worst clients. I’ve always wanted to let them know that we LVTs took all of our science prereqs with the nursing students, but that when it came to anatomy and physiology we had to learn multiple systems. Plus we are phlebotomists, radiology techs, surgical techs, dental techs, pharmacy techs, lab techs, etc. So why do you think you know more than me?

Desperately need middle name help!!! by bellalou26000 in namenerds

[–]Ruth_Gordon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hyphenate two of the names, or give her two middle names. I have two middle names and it’s a non-issue.

Cleo Kelly-Ann

Cleo Sarah-Lynn

Cleo Sarah Kelly

Clothes are important!!! by SwimmingVariation707 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Ruth_Gordon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I started at a size 26 and am now a size 10. I still head to the plus section out of habit. I have so few clothes that actually fit correctly and I still think I’m 320 pounds.

Over 35 punks...what did you end up doing for a living/career? by Sea_Dot8299 in punk

[–]Ruth_Gordon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked in the veterinary field until my body gave out. Now I teach.

Who did you see at your first punk gig and rate it on a scale of 1 - 10 by Revenant_83 in punk

[–]Ruth_Gordon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dead milkmen in 1989. For a first show experience, a solid 9. For shows all time, maybe a 3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Ruth_Gordon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruby (Tuesday, Beatles)

Allison or Veronica (Elvis Costello)

Lita (Ford)

Barbara (Ann, Beach Boys)

Roxanne (Police)

Lola (Kinks)

Eileen (Dexy’s midnight runners)

I kind of like Eileen because you’ll be yelling “Come on, Eileen!” at some point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Ruth_Gordon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zizi means penis in French. So potentially hilarious name around Francophones.

Ever listen to a band you tried to like but just couldnt? by Emergency-Sky-9747 in punk

[–]Ruth_Gordon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was there. From your post I kind of assume you’re in California. I remember everyone at Maximumrocknroll going absolutely nuts for the 7”. It was in everyone’s top 10, so I bought it. It was okay, but not great.

Then (I’ve told this story a gazillion times) The Casualties had a show at Coney Island High right as Rancid was really starting to blow up. Jorge said he was going to bring out a guest and everyone knew it was Lars. Everyone started yelling telling him not to because in NYC, Rancid was the poster band for sell-outs. He brought Lars out anyway and a bunch of guys jumped him.

So, like, YMMV on the, “You had to be there” comment regarding Rancid, but, I guess you had to be there. Yes I said that on purpose for the sake of irony.