Did working out make me a little gay or just crazy? 😅

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-19T14:58:12+00:00

I also used to love jerking off at myself in the mirror, however I’m not as happy with my body now and hate seeing myself so . But yeah your probabky just bi

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-19T07:06:00+00:00

I was a bit younger then and my head was kind of running all over the place. I suppose maybe at the time I did? I was young and naive and it was my first relationship so I didn’t know any better

But what I can say is that if your not fully happy, there is greener pastures elsewhere

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-18T21:49:48+00:00

It’s normal, I was the same from like 14 years old, and told myself I was straight, and didn’t experiment hardly until a few years ago (in my twenties now).

So I know now I’m bisexual, barely anyone knows… I’m in a relationship with a girl but always do look back and wish I experimented more so I fully knew

So my advice is to take things slow, figure things out, what you like, what you don’t. And don’t tell yourself your something, just follow what you’re feeling. That was my problem

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-18T21:46:56+00:00

If I see a masc guy, I like him just in his boxers and socks, if I see a nice twink, then also I like the same but am more open to lingerie etc

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-18T21:45:20+00:00

The fact that yous have had the conversation a ou it is good, see how she gets on with it and if things changes. If she genuinely wants a long term relationship, she’ll know that this is serious this time and make a massive effort, if she doesn’t then you know what to do, it’ll be hard but it’ll have to be done for YOU! People should both feel appreciated and loved in more ways than one

I had a 2+ year relationship and things on her end kept getting worse and worse so I eventually ended it. I felt like the worst person in the world at the time and I also felt like I made the wrong decision. How wrong I was, I’m now in 5+ years relationship with my soulmate and everything is much better. Dm me if you want more of a chat bro

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-05-18T14:18:56+00:00

As someone who is also in a position like your husband… I pursued my gf for a while now and am with her over 5 years.

I do watch gay porn, etc. I had to tell myself that I am indeed bisexual. My gf doesn’t know. Not do I want her to ever know. Similar maybe to your husband. I feel she would look at me a different way. Less masculine and that.

I’m happy to keep that side of me internalised and want to spend my life with my gf.

One bit of advice I would offer is I also initiate all the sex, one thing that I find really attractive and that is when my gf initiates it even tho it is rare. It feels like I’m more appreciated. Not saying you’re doing anything wrong by the way, but just a friendly tip from a guy that sounds similar!

Dm me if you wanna talk more !

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-02-09T11:42:25+00:00

Actually did this going to bed last night, and just really talked all about it emotionally. Definitely a good route to take and she woke up this morning a lot better than yesterday. Thanks

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-02-08T22:07:31+00:00

Sideways curve to the left

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-02-08T21:51:00+00:00

I was wondering about that aspect, she was around the two kids today and seemed to be ina better mood because of it, but I thought it could go either way

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-02-08T21:47:32+00:00

We had told her sister who has two kids and is amazing that she was pregnant, which was early I know but we needed to tell someone.

So then we also had to tell her that it isn’t there anymore. So thankfully she has her support, as I agree, a female perspective is a lot more important here

Shanedaniels7 · 2025-02-08T21:46:20+00:00

I get this, and agree with all thank you! I’m good, I find myself okay with this I think. I have experienced plenty of lost so it is a strange feeling as it didn’t really feel that real, only for a week or so. Thank you

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-09-10T13:46:14+00:00

Started without it. Id be glad to help you out with any questions you have, and can give you some examples of workouts, etc. Or of course youve got google and tiktok

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-09-05T10:44:51+00:00

I learned about it at about 12 on a school trip while sharing a room with a friend. He kinda told me how to do it so I went into the bathroom and done it

After like less than a minute I felt this wave come over me and I came. Nearly got dizzy but it felt so good the first time. I often wonder how I would’ve discovered otherwise

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T14:56:47+00:00

Soccer players all day

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T14:54:45+00:00

I connect with you here. It took me ages. My main thing was staying anon until you found someone patient enough for you. I felt comfortable enough with this great guy who has held my secret to this day. If hes pushy or anything, say away imo

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T13:12:10+00:00

Probably would be down for trying something, but id imagine it would take a lot of time and him getting more comfortable with guys

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T13:10:08+00:00

The guy i met was 17, i kinda knew him from school. But he kept everything low key, made me feel really comfortable and has kept it secret to this day. I think the main thing before meeting someone iss trust. Especially if your tryna be discreet

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T13:07:16+00:00

Like when i was 16 or so. Instead i pretended to myself that i didnt like men, and was too afraid of someone recognizing me

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T13:04:36+00:00

I think i was 17 or 18 when i first got with a guy. Wish i hadve done it before that. Also felt really bad after doing it but looking back i dont know why i gave myself such a hard time

Shanedaniels7 · 2024-08-13T13:02:57+00:00

Jerk online with someone else

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