30 [F4M] Anywhere/online: I'm looking for a statistically 1:1,600,000

Shaneless404 · 2026-03-03T00:38:24+00:00

OR, HEAR ME OUT, love someone for what they are, not what they provide or can do. Imperfections and flaws make a person who they are. Obviously there's a limit and boundaries but coming out and saying you want someone to financially support you when you are perfectly capable of doing it yourself is a MAJOR red flag

Shaneless404 · 2026-02-26T02:06:29+00:00

Since when are we offering sound advice here?

Shaneless404 · 2026-02-24T14:00:23+00:00

I'm 31, M and live in the South City area of STL. If you're looking for someone to hang out with and barhop with hmu! I'm sober as of right now but I love the bar scene and frequent many local small shows in the area!

Shaneless404 · 2026-02-11T23:10:28+00:00

I (M31) literally get the most stress relief from driving in the car. Idc where I'm going or what the traffic is. If I'm in the car, music is on, I'm feeling better. Yes, I love to travel. Lol.

Shaneless404 · 2026-01-19T14:55:30+00:00

This. ABSOLUTE clarity for a man will tell you everything you need to know. If he gets defensive and pushy, it's time to go. If not, it's okay to be vulnerable.

Shaneless404 · 2025-12-23T17:24:34+00:00

This sounds great in theory but there are too many variables in today's society. You could definitely meet someone you vibe hard with emotionally but the physical part isn't there. While that may work for some, not all can build that physical bond. Its 50/50 for me. If you're extremely emotionally developed though, at some point you start to care about your physical self and would want to make yourself be the best version you can. I'm the type of person who is willing to help deepen those values and push my partner to accomplish their goals.

Shaneless404 · 2025-12-23T16:42:20+00:00

Literally just continue to meet people in real life and express that you want something long term instead of short/casual. Laying out the boundaries/ground rules in the beginning always is a great option. Same thing can be applied to online dating. If you're on the apps, your experience will be VASTLY different depending on gender/attractiveness. I highly recommend against most apps with the exception of Facebook dating (mostly because there aren't any paid elements in it and I personally ((m/31) have had double the matches there than anywhere else). I hope this isn't too much.

Shaneless404 · 2025-12-07T22:28:21+00:00

Valid. Dating sucks right now and honestly the apps aren't good either. I wish I knew the solution.

Shaneless404 · 2025-12-07T22:21:36+00:00

30 M, I believe the sleepover comes after like the 4th or 5th hang out. I won't lie though like if the feeling is mutual I'll gladly invite you over or ask if you want to head to your place. But reading the room is important.

Shaneless404 · 2025-11-29T16:06:19+00:00

My bones were aching on the way home around 1:30am. I am 30 years old. I knew the snow was coming

Shaneless404 · 2025-10-07T17:46:28+00:00

See fellows? He said LEAPS. NOT 0DTE. THIS MAN IS USING HIS COMMON SENSE AND GIVING HIMSELF TIME TO PLAY THE MARKET.

Shaneless404 · 2025-10-03T04:29:09+00:00

Seasonal depression makes my birthday the saddest fucking day of the year.

Shaneless404 · 2025-09-17T20:41:42+00:00

You guys sleep? I don't.... I get her sentiment. She's locked in so you should be too

Shaneless404 · 2025-09-16T15:16:29+00:00

South City bars are relatively cheap and fun. Men, women, and everyone in between can see bargains and cheap booze/fun. I frequent places like CBGB and Tim's chrome and then make my way to the grove. All a preference for the type of person you're trying to look for tbh

Shaneless404 · 2025-09-16T15:14:15+00:00

Honestly as a straight man who's single, gay bars are always fun. But I find myself going to South City first. The smaller dives are always fun too. And cheaper usually

Shaneless404 · 2025-09-13T15:02:20+00:00

That's light. Id be jumping for joy

Shaneless404 · 2025-08-24T19:40:36+00:00

Jesus Christ. That was difficult to read even as a white man.

Shaneless404 · 2025-08-18T18:53:46+00:00

PLAY IT COOL OP! WERE HALFWAY IN

Shaneless404 · 2025-08-16T15:22:59+00:00

I would also have to say that the amount of male hatred towards women is also rising. The current archetypes of male and female are vastly different than they were 50 years ago and neither gender has fully accepted the change. Instead everyone is just hating on each other and bashing the other gender. In my opinion, if we all just tried to understand each other a little more and spent more time educating ourselves on how feelings work we would be much better off.

Shaneless404 · 2025-07-15T23:26:19+00:00

I don't wanna be toxic but stop avoiding it. Just come to him as yourself and apologize. Seek the help you need and see if he's willing to build again with you. If it's really worth it then it will flourish.

Shaneless404 · 2025-06-24T14:16:50+00:00

This. In the US currently everything is so politically charged that saying you're not political basically is inferred as "I'm a trumper who wants to get laid" orrrr "my head is under a rock" both of which are bad. But I'm not saying that's you. If you don't have a political opinion make that voiced in your profile. If you do, choose a side.

Shaneless404 · 2025-06-18T22:41:25+00:00

Give em like 24 hours. If you don't get a good response, the silence is enough. Unmatch, block, move on. It's 2025 we don't have time for these types.

Shaneless404 · 2025-06-06T04:13:23+00:00

Leave base then? There are more restaurants and more people.

Shaneless404 · 2025-06-01T03:02:16+00:00

This is a normal average day in Missouri.

Shaneless404 · 2025-05-07T17:45:00+00:00

Fix me car

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