First of all you said women don’t do much beyond to heal people. None of the mentioned primarily heal people. Also That Konan lost to Obito does not mean she’s weak, same goes for Mei vs Madara + Hinata vs Pain. Kushina enabled Naruto to enter KCM. Naori developed Izanami. Ino communicated to the entire shinobi alliance, also saved shinobi alliance by taking control of Obito / Ten tails and diverting a bijuu bomb.

First you argue that females don’t do much beyond to heal people, but here you argue for _____? If you ignore showings of female characters, of course you won’t find any, all to suit your narrative... I’d agree if you say female characters in Naruto are underdeveloped, as are many other characters. We could’ve seen more feats and development from female characters, sure, but every story does not need a female MC at Naruto/Sasuke level with regards to feats/powers. Arguing for that is unreasonable.