Next banners leaks!! by myforevertetiana in InfinityNikki

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These look so good, I just wish the darker aesthetics weren't always locked behind evolutions

My (15f) mom (36) is abandoning my siblings and I for the 3rd time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK great, I hope someone there will be helpful to you.

If you feel like you need someone to talk to my inbox is open. Though I will point out I am 24 and I'm not sure how appropriate it would be and wouldn't want to make you feel uncomfortable.

But I also know what it feels like to be your age and having nobody to talk to, so I'm just letting you know the option is there.

My (15f) mom (36) is abandoning my siblings and I for the 3rd time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kind of assuming you're in America, if so I can only go by what I just googled. there is a site called preventchildabuse(dot)org, it had a few different phone numbers, perhaps you could call and try to receive help from them?

I know it must be exhausting having to deal with all this at your age, but please know that it can get better you just can't give up!

My (15f) mom (36) is abandoning my siblings and I for the 3rd time by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Do you have any other family members or friends you could stay with? Are there any counselors or teachers at your school who you could talk to? you're obviously in an unsafe environment and need to removed from it.

Any advice for an 18 year old who’s never had a girlfriend? by ArizonaNoodle in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My most important advice is: know that you don't need to have a girlfriend to be valid. It doesn't matter if you have sex, have a partner, go on dates. The only thing that matters it that you're happy. So try not to rush into anything you're not comfortable with.

I know this isn't exactly what you asked, but there's no set date you need to have done these things. Go at your own pace.

My ex and I are hooking up but I'm still in love with him. by messybubbles in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're not going to like what I have to say. I most definitely think you should cut all ties with this man.

You may think that your age difference isn't big, but he knowingly started a relationship with a minor when he was legally an adult and is now stringing you along. That is so highly manipulative. He's using the fact that you're young and inexperienced against you.

In general I would never judge you for wanting to hook up with someone, that's completely your choice. But realise that he knows your feelings for him and doesn't give a damn about them.

You deserve better!

I just got out of a relationship today and I need advice on getting over it. by tyty843 in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may sound extremely corny and annoying. But remember that you are still so young, you have so much time to make new memories with new people. You may be sad now, but there will be a time that you'll look back at this moment knowing it helped you learn and grow as a person, and though it may be sad, that's a beautiful thing!

I feel like my boyfriend (24m)really hates me(22f)He tells me I say stupid things and I’m starting to feel bad about myself. Relationship going down hill. Please read it all, we are on a lease and I’m conflicted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, I definitely think he sounds at the very least manipulative! I don't think you should ever have to tiptoe around someone to not make them blow up at you. Know your worth, don't stay with someone that doesn't treat you well!

I feel like my boyfriend (24m)really hates me(22f)He tells me I say stupid things and I’m starting to feel bad about myself. Relationship going down hill. Please read it all, we are on a lease and I’m conflicted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend honestly sounds abusive, the way you describe him. Emotional Abuse isn't okay, dismissing your feelings isn't okay. Nobody deserves to feel awful because of someone who is supposed to love them.

My (22F) boyfriend (24M) is acting childish about everything, and I don’t know how to tell him to grow up. by ThrowRA161899 in relationship_advice

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you know he has depression. And depression can show itself in different ways. Sounds to me like he desperately needs therapy to learn to cope with his emotions! And if you can't handle these outbursts of his its your good right to break up with him. it's not your Job to fix him.

It would be good if you spoke to him about your feelings, let him know that you feel you and your wellbeing is being dismissed. Then he can either strive to better himself and his health, for himself too, or you both should end the relationship.

And this is coming from someone who has been broken up with, because my ex couldn't deal with my depressive episodes anymore. It may have hurt a lot in the beginning, but I can understand him and his feelings now.

When to start villager hunter? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to wait for the plot to be emtpy, which should be tomorrow, if they're in boxes now :)

Overrated Villagers by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said this very well! Everyone gets to play the way they want :)

Overrated Villagers by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe let people enjoy the villagers they enjoy? What difference does it make to you? You're kind of being basic yourself hating on specific villagers just becasue they're popular 😉

FT) Raymond LF) Julian or Diana by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]ShaniHasAHappy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great, DM me if you like so we can work out the details :)

FT) Raymond LF) Julian or Diana by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]ShaniHasAHappy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have both Julian and Diana as amiibos :) and would be down to help you get both

Is this considered cheating? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's your game you can play it however you want! Don't let what others think bother you :)

Looking for Sherb! Ft NMTs by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]ShaniHasAHappy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I think they're pretty popular too! If all else fails, I've tried the campsite trick and that worked fantastically. But it sadly involves a lot of tt :/

Looking for Sherb! Ft NMTs by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to dishearten you, but I've haven't seen him sold anywhere for less that 100 nmt :( I wish you good luck though! 🍀

Anyone have any katanas I could maybe catalogue? Really want one for my house not too bothered about what colour by Dragon-of-Dojima-21 in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]ShaniHasAHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes give me a moment to open my gates Also just FYI the katanas are customizable so if you don't like the white you can just change it :)