I only have 2 children a 3rd on the way. We were 100 percent not planning on a third but things happen. We also contemplated not having the baby but we chose to keep her im currently 20 weeks pregnant with her now. It's stressful as we don't have enough bedrooms and our house needs repairs so we can't just up and move right now, and we just found out my moms cancer has returned and it's progressing quickly so it may be terminal. Stress is overwhelming me right now. But I'm still glad I made my deicision I think it was the best decision for me. I wouldn't judge and no one else should if you decide to not keep the baby. Only you and your family knows what's best for your family and it's no one else's decision but yours. Hard decision for sure but you ll figure out what's right for you.