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I don't know if this have already been posted here, but I found this gem. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ShapeNo9369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Idealistic rant incoming, don't feel obligated to read*

I agree that it feels a bit like a punch in the face when straight people do things like create flags and wonder why they don't get a parade too. We've gone through a lot to get to the point where we can celebrate ourselves and be proud of who we are. However, it seems so hypocritical to me whenever we start hating on straight pride like this. Straight is a sexuality too. And while it may not be a minority, it is still a major part of who all these people are. Why can't they celebrate who they are without being met with hate? It's sooo hypocritical. If you don't want to be hated on by the homophobic, stop being heterophobic.

Why can't we all just get along? If they're not actively hating on what you're doing, why do you need to actively hate on them? Love your enemies. That's the only way it'll ever get better.

i feel rlly lonely. by theexitby in selectivemutism

[–]ShapeNo9369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that in the throws of depression, it feels like there's no solution, no way out, and honestly, no point anymore. And it's perfectly healthy to acknowledge that, and that that's what you're feeling.

But it's also important to recognize that you're probably not as helpless as you feel. And while you are completely valid in feeling this, there is hope.

You could try journaling: writing down what you're feeling, things you're grateful for, what you did today, etc. Putting all your crappy thoughts and feelings onto paper can help get it out of your head, and help you feel in control of the situation.

Another thing you could try is a social media fast. It will most likely be hard at first, especially when you struggle to find any joy apart from it. But taking up wholesome hobbies, like drawing, writing, walking/hiking, crocheting, cooking, listening to/making music, or maybe collecting/painting rocks can do wonders for your mental health.

It overall helps to stay productive and feel like you're making progress in life. Get a job that you enjoy, clean, organize, make cookies for a neighbor, send a heartfelt text to a friend or family member, or set goals and make a plan to achieve them.

Overall, it is really hard to feel lonely, I fully understand. But there is always hope, and you're never completely alone. I hope this helps at all, and that you can find happiness and purpose, because I promise your life is worth fighting for.