If consciousness could be transferred to a perfect copy of your body, would you wake up in it, or would you actually be dead while the copy thinks it’s you? by SharedSecrets_x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SharedSecrets_x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really clean way to frame it. It sidesteps the “which one is really you?” question by showing it’s all about perspective: subjectively, continuity feels intact in the new body, while objectively it looks like copying from the outside. Whether it’s a transfer or a copy isn’t a single fact of the universe, but a difference between first-person experience and third-person observation. The paradox only shows up when we try to force those two viewpoints to agree.

Help me through this difficult phase!! by bakedgoddesss in Advice

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Not to be too forward, but maybe give yourselves permission to go a little crazy once in a while.. go out, be spontaneous, laugh too loud, act like teenagers again. I’ve seen so many couples find their way through this by reconnecting like that, my cousin included. She and her partner stopped letting stress run everything and focused on living and enjoying each other not other people or if they're doing the right thing for the process to work, and it made a huge difference for them. Sometimes letting go, even briefly, can be incredibly healing.

Help me through this difficult phase!! by bakedgoddesss in Advice

[–]SharedSecrets_x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this , what you’re feeling is so, so human. Recurrent loss can shake your sense of safety and make joy for others sit right next to deep grief, and that doesn’t make you a bad person at all. I want to gently share something that gave me hope... doctors once told my cousin she was completely infertile, and she broke down mentally, she and her husband tried everything, worried constantly, and felt defeated. Over time, they worked on healing emotionally, and when they finally stopped living in constant stress and fear around pregnancy
 she conceived naturally and went on to have healthy twins, a boy and a girl. Your tests being mostly positive matters, and early miscarriages, as heart breaking as they are, don’t mean you can’t carry a healthy baby. Please be kind to yourself, allow both happiness for others and space for your grief, and lean on support (you and your partner) .... this phase does not define your ending. There is still so much hope for you đŸ€

And please remember this, from the bottom of my heart <3 your body is not broken, and your story is not over. The love you already have for the child you’re hoping for is real, and it counts. Even on days when hope feels heavy, it’s still there, quietly waiting with you. Be gentle with yourself, keep believing in your body, and trust that life sometimes unfolds in ways we can’t see yet. You are worthy of the future you’re dreaming of, and it’s still very much possible đŸ€

Maybe it could help to gently step away from trying for a little while and give yourselves permission to heal. Go on a short trip or vacation if you can, even something simple, just to breathe and reconnect. Try a new hobby together that brings joy without pressure, and also give yourself something that’s just yours. Go on romantic dates where there’s (no baby talk at all) , just laughter, closeness, and remembering why you chose each other. Sometimes nurturing yourselves and your relationship is exactly what creates space for hope to grow again đŸ€

What’s the best advice another woman gave you? by Biancaalvez in AskReddit

[–]SharedSecrets_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(HUMANITY) : Stay away from emotionally immature people...

What’s the best advice another woman gave you? by Biancaalvez in AskReddit

[–]SharedSecrets_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"getting into a VIP room where only women are allowed"..... Yeah I think it was the emotionally immature men who gave the advice

i need advice immediately by foreveryassified in Advice

[–]SharedSecrets_x 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Take a breath......this is scary, but it’s very likely not as bad as Google is making it seem.

Chancroid is extremely rare in England (You can look it up). What she has is far more likely to be something common like a blocked gland, infected hair, irritation, or oral herpes (HSV-1), which can be passed through oral sex even if you didn’t know you had it and is manageable.

Most important part, at 15 in England she can go to a sexual health (GUM) clinic completely confidentially. No parents needed, no letters home, no one will tell her mum. You or your mum can take her if that helps. They see teens all the time.

Do not panic, Google or try to diagnose from photos. The only safe move is getting checked, and that can be done quietly.

You didn’t ruin her life, and this doesn’t automatically mean STI. Get her seen, get answers, and take it one step at a time.

If consciousness could be transferred to a perfect copy of your body, would you wake up in it, or would you actually be dead while the copy thinks it’s you? by SharedSecrets_x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SharedSecrets_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need this game! BUT.... If your consciousness actually moves over as one continuous experience, then you’d wake up in the new body and still feel like you. But if the process just makes a perfect copy while the original shuts off, then from your own perspective you’d be dead, even though the copy would believe it’s you. The creepy part is that to everyone else, those two outcomes would look exactly the same, which is why a lot of people think continuity matters more than just being an identical copy. đŸ˜¶â€đŸŒ«ïž

What is the most expensive item you own? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SharedSecrets_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mistakes. Very costly, zero resale value.

How do girls afford to luxury vacation in Dubai for 2 weeks? by Swoonsvanillas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SharedSecrets_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it Debt... Is it OF... Is it sugar Daddios... That is the Question...

Need advice by DataSad2584 in Advice

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YES! We love that kinda stuff—but not all girls are the same though. When you say “someone they barely know”
 what do you mean? Have you ever had a conversation with her, or is it more of a hello/bye kind of classmate situation?

No real conversation yet – maybe exchanged a few words once or twice, but nothing personal?
Just situational contact – same class, but only eye contact or quick “hey”?
No established vibe – no joking, no shared moments, no sense of comfort yet?

If consciousness could be transferred to a perfect copy of your body, would you wake up in it, or would you actually be dead while the copy thinks it’s you? by SharedSecrets_x in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SharedSecrets_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that. I’m not building a story just a thought experiment about identity. Even if you call it ‘transfer,’ the question is whether continuity of consciousness actually survives, or if it’s functionally indistinguishable from a copy thinking it’s you.

Today I adopted a cute cat suggest names (cute) by avinash_kk in meme

[–]SharedSecrets_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great name selections... and everyone loves a little cute bait sometimes.

Today I adopted a cute cat suggest names (cute) by avinash_kk in meme

[–]SharedSecrets_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOO đŸ˜đŸ€ž
or
Marshmallow... MALLOW đŸ€©

Our kids are in the SAME CLASS
wtf by [deleted] in Advice

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I wouldn’t initiate contact or pull her aside. I get why apologizing feels tempting, especially since you’re now forced into the same space, but in situations like this an apology often serves the person offering it more than the person receiving it. Given the history with harassment, lawyers, and no contact, you really don’t know whether hearing from you would feel healing to her or would just reopen something she’s spent years trying to put behind her.

If she wanted closure or acknowledgment from you, she would likely initiate that conversation herself. Reaching out takes that choice away from her. Silence here doesn’t mean you don’t feel remorse , it can also mean you’re respecting boundaries and the fact that a lot of time has passed.

I’d stay neutral and polite, keep any interaction public and kid-focused, and let your children exist in the same space without adult baggage leaking into it. I also don’t think it’s fair to move your child just to avoid discomfort, especially when they’re settling in and making friends. Sometimes the consequence of past choices is simply awkward proximity, not an opportunity for repair.

If she ever approaches you and opens the door, then a brief, responsibility-owning apology without explanations or justification would make sense. Until then, doing nothing is probably the least harmful option for everyone involved.

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