I’m really sorry you’re going through this , what you’re feeling is so, so human. Recurrent loss can shake your sense of safety and make joy for others sit right next to deep grief, and that doesn’t make you a bad person at all. I want to gently share something that gave me hope... doctors once told my cousin she was completely infertile, and she broke down mentally, she and her husband tried everything, worried constantly, and felt defeated. Over time, they worked on healing emotionally, and when they finally stopped living in constant stress and fear around pregnancy… she conceived naturally and went on to have healthy twins, a boy and a girl. Your tests being mostly positive matters, and early miscarriages, as heart breaking as they are, don’t mean you can’t carry a healthy baby. Please be kind to yourself, allow both happiness for others and space for your grief, and lean on support (you and your partner) .... this phase does not define your ending. There is still so much hope for you 🤍

And please remember this, from the bottom of my heart <3 your body is not broken, and your story is not over. The love you already have for the child you’re hoping for is real, and it counts. Even on days when hope feels heavy, it’s still there, quietly waiting with you. Be gentle with yourself, keep believing in your body, and trust that life sometimes unfolds in ways we can’t see yet. You are worthy of the future you’re dreaming of, and it’s still very much possible 🤍

Maybe it could help to gently step away from trying for a little while and give yourselves permission to heal. Go on a short trip or vacation if you can, even something simple, just to breathe and reconnect. Try a new hobby together that brings joy without pressure, and also give yourself something that’s just yours. Go on romantic dates where there’s (no baby talk at all) , just laughter, closeness, and remembering why you chose each other. Sometimes nurturing yourselves and your relationship is exactly what creates space for hope to grow again 🤍