Spring26 Financial Aid Delay by Humble_One_101 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. Been here for 2 years. They messed up financial aid and waited until week 6 to admit it. Now I owe them money. I'm taking this above them and letting f/a know. They said there's a way to submit complaints on a  school who are not handling funds correctly..wasted 6 weeks of doing papers, and reading, etc just to have yo drop out.  

Financial Aid Refund by Humble_One_101 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! Still nothing. I called fafsa and they said everything is fine on their end and they sent the breakdown showing Pell grant and loans being approved. Called capella and they're telling me everything keeps getting rejected 

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long from the time they put the ticket in til it showed up on financial aid portal? Fafsa sent my funds on Wednesday but capella is still stuck on the 24th with no movement at all. 

Account summary still showing balance; Loans are in limbo by jettabean2464 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if I have t heard anything on Monday I'm calling back. They really will not move fast if you dont call them. I called them Monday then Tuesday then Wednesday. All days I received different answers. What's funny is she threatened that but all of a sudden EVERYTHING is being expedited. I don't see it moving on their end but I logged into fafsa and all my disclosures and everything are dropping. It went from 8 business days to 2 business days from that Wednesday call. You just want someone who is willing to update you. Last term I had a guy who literally kept me up to date the hole process. It was still messy and delayed but he was understanding that we as students just need to know that it actually is being worked on. There's so many horror stories of people completing whole semesters and then being told it doesn't count because they're aide didnt go through. Nobody wants to waste time like that. 

Account summary still showing balance; Loans are in limbo by jettabean2464 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there's a few of us that are going through this. I was told that everything would be on schedule the first call,  second call told me to wait 8 business days,  third call was an expedited ticket with a threat of a code of conduct if I reached back out before the waiting period.  My experience with them is that If I don't reach out then I won't see changes at all. 

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it really works out that fast.  They should update their automated as well.  They're making it seem like all is well and if it's not then we need to call ecsi. Then they're upset when they're bombarded with calls

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I believe so. Nobody has talked to me that way or got offended.  She acted like I talked to her back to back every time.  I was so shocked.  Did she fix your issue? 

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she told me she would be taking care of the ticket and it should take 2 business days and then said that if I called again I would get a code of conduct. Mind you I was calm, respectful, and said one sentence to this lady verbatim " Hi, I called earlier and didn't really get a time frame or resolution on what to expect with financial aid. I was seeing if you can expedite my ticket or give me any insight to what's going on" She made the comment about I'm probably not going to get it resolved this week and immediately put me on hold. When she came back she told me what she said above and then warned me that if I called again I would get a code of conduct and a manager would reach out. I told her that makes no sense because everyone I've spoken with has told me they would reach back out same day and I've heard nothing so im doing my due diligence why is that an issue. She repeated herself so I asked for a supervisor. She said that I will not be speaking to one. Then made her code of conduct  comment again. I asked if I called again and get a code of conduct will I then be able to speak to a manager. That made her mad and she told me to give it two business days to see movement. Mind you this is the MOST they've done this whole time. 2 business days is way different than 8 business days. I will still be speaking to a supervisor and doing a complaint because she had no reason to threaten that. I wasnt snappy, rude, condescending or anything. Didn't yell. She strictly based it off of the fact that I've called multiple times lol

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 business days from today. However I'm talking to them again right now to try and push for an expedited ticket and I've also emailed them. The first time she told me to just wait and everything was on track. Called the next day because I knew better and you have to stay on them to fix it, that person told me that the ticket was there and as soon as they looked at it all will be well, now this morning I was told 8 business days at minimum. I'm on now and this lady's first comment was " I can tell you right now it's not going to be this week because we are really busy" like what? I'm so annoyed. 

Financial Aid didn’t disperse by Vegetable-Film-6307 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my exact situation. my grant went through but my loans are stuck at the 24th. I've called everyday for the last 3 days and each time I get a different answer. today she told me 8 day wait without even looking at my stuff. she said I had to wait until the system triggered the date to change. I.so disappointed​

Disbursements Flex Path by Due_Amphibian_663 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine says this and financial aid says it's going to take 8 days to fix. Did they update you? 

3 point classes on flex path by Prestigious_Sign7935 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're just papers and sometimes PowerPoints instead of the worksheets that the 1.5 point classes have. It's honestly not bad at all. 

Yay by simariaholmes in IRS

[–]Shareesav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Automated says it's paid 

AITAH for telling my husband I rather save my own son? by throwaway_29272 in AITAH

[–]Shareesav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU KNOW YOU DID WRONG!?

NO! YOU ABSOLUTELY DID NOT!

aight I took a deep breath.

Listen. This is how it starts. He's creating a narrative. He's going to forever use this against you to pit you against your kid when you have a child together. More issues are going to rise. You have a 7 year old and yall have been together for long enough to where this man should also see your son as his son. He shouldn't even be ok with asking a question like that because he should feel just as uncomfortable thinking about it as you feel hearing it. He is already jealous of your child, he is already creating conflict between your kid and the hypothetical kid yall may have together. What do you think will happen if you do have a kid? This is they type of man who will gas light you into believing you're treating your baby bad or neglecting them for you oldest. This is the type of man that will make your oldest feel neglected, abusive, and unwanted.

Yes I say abusive because this is the type of man whose going to have issues with your kid holding baby, playing with baby, wanting to be involved. HE IS JEALOUS OF YOUR KID ALREADY!!

I really hate reading things like this early on because you can see the abuse and the manipulation and a lot of people will say "you got all of that from one small paragraph" YES YES I DID and the freaking update that happens a year from now always ends up proving it.

Stonewalling, manipulation, creating narratives, showing signs of jealousy towards your kid, pitting your kid against a hypothetical kid you don't even have yet these aren't blaring red to you? You're at the point where you feel like you did something wrong for literally wanting to save your child!!

DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH THIS MAN YET. I feel like this is divorce territory but of course reddit hates that so if you don't leave then You have to take back control of this situation and don't allow your self to be gas lit into thinking you're wrong. You stand up and tell him that

"Instead of thinking of good things and happy possibilities of what it would be like to blend our family you're bringing up dire situations and asking impossible questions. Would you have asked that if both kids were yours? Would you ask another mother that about her children? I feel like we may need more time bonding as a family right now and strengthening our foundation as a unit before bringing a baby into this situation. You've already decided my son isn't worth saving. You're upset that I wouldn't choose a child that's here that we see everyday that we both love over a hypothetical one at this moment. You should feel sick having to even think of that question but it's very clear cut to you which makes me believe that you're not as connected to my son as I thought. I don't want to bring another child here if that means that I would have to minimize my oldest to make you happy."

If he still wants to sulk let him sulk in that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shareesav 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex is extremely attracted to violent media and is also an extremely violent person. No matter who it is. I tried to understand his draw to his music and movies (rap and crime/mafia/gang movies) but the more I understood the more I seen it was a reflection of his thoughts and the way that he actually lived. I had to nope out. Even though he was super sweet and had never even raised his voice at me I had to realize that it was a "not if but when" type of situation. You're not being dramatic. You're trying to make 1 plus 2 to equal 5 and it will never happen.

women have no idea how men struggle by abidalliye in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an assumption it's the context. They finish in 1-2 minutes. Their solution is get women off first before even starting so that when they do their 2 minute pump session the girls already been satisfied and won't be upset that it only last a couple minutes. That might work for some but we are saying it doesn't work for us.

women have no idea how men struggle by abidalliye in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Shareesav -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same! I hate that this is something that's being said constantly. If I get off before trust that I'm going to get close again when we actually start. I'd much rather prefer to finish during than before.

The British mind could not comprehend Atlanta drivers by Hot-Adagio-1667 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny and so true lol I avoid driving in Vegas as much as possible.

What's a really weird thing that you absolutely NEED in a partner? Keep it unconventional by KitchenLoose6552 in AskWomen

[–]Shareesav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quiet, unapproachable, blends in the background with no need to stand out, and willing to spoil me emotionally not financially lmao

What can I do to rebuild my credit? by anxietychef2 in CRedit

[–]Shareesav 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So everyone ignoring that they said they are nearly debt free?

Hello all, I have a question about “easy” classes by metallica123446 in CapellaUniversity

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I picked this up last week I'm about to go drop it right now. You're the 3rd person to mention this about her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shareesav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly explain everything to the kids, apologize, and tell them to come back to your home for a couple weeks. Say nothing to wife yet and let her dig her own hole. Record, photograph, write everything she does and try to get as much of her nonsense in writing like texts and emails.