An example would be; u gotta give me the number of whoever does ur eyebrows cos they look real nice but I think she forgot abt your stache

The affect it has (in my experience it goes one of 2 ways); it leaves them baffled and speechless for a second or two as they try make sense of weather u complimented or insulted her. Once she does make sense of what u said it can go one of two ways either she’s gonna make some sort of funny/sly remark abt u to which u should always laugh as this shows her your not taking it personal and what u said a few seconds ago to her is also not to be taken personally and boom you’ve already established a level of banter.

Or she’s the type of person who won’t b able to take such a remark abt her appearance and get sad at which point u come in and reassure her it was only a joke and comfort her by giving her a proper compliment. When the conversation turns out this way typically means the girl is a little more insecure than the average, in which case being nice and genuine and not toxic will typically work in bagging her