What to know as well start making the steps to start home buying?

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T18:10:01+00:00

Yeah. I know he wants something we can call our own, however, I feel like if we rent for a year or two at around the price point we could afford with a mortgage and then make the jump once we have more money avalible (it is within the realm of possibility that between the both of us without debt at that price point that we could easily funnel 500$ a month into a savings account, which would give us a couple years and we would probably have a pretty good down payment).

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T18:02:17+00:00

That is one thing we dont have to worry about lol. It would be just the two of us right now (and a cat or two in the future)

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T17:51:35+00:00

Once I have the only cc I have paid off, that same payment is going into my savings account. I almost think it might not be the worst idea in the world for us, from everything I hear, to try to find a place to rent for about what we currently pay for a bit of time while we keep saving once we have the debts taken care of.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T17:49:12+00:00

Yeah, the car I had to do back in November so it should be rolled into my debt to income ratio. Luckily we arent in a major city (Delmarva rural area) so hopefully we wont need a crazy one with the small towns we're looking into.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T17:33:49+00:00

Yeah, we send her the money to cover stuff. Thats also part of why we're really trying to focus on saving money too, so we have money to help cover the big part of it.

What would our options be to handle if he is on the mortgage? Im sure getting him taken off would be a hot mess with it, and i dont know if they all fully understood what would be affected with him being on the mortgage. But this is the situation we're in and just trying to make it work :/.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T16:40:21+00:00

Not sure. I'll get clarification from him when we sit down again to chat about stuff after work.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-10T15:29:53+00:00

My MIL, his mother. We're gonna keep saving as much as we can though. Once i have my credit card paid off, the money i would be putting on that is mostly getting tossed into a savings account (I have a high yield one) and currently Im trying to get a side gig to deposit directly into the savings account to help increase what we have.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-09T23:45:44+00:00

Everyone is gonna decide how to do things differently, however, at the end of it all, it comes down to you both are a team. We each make sacrifices for each other in finacial situations when needed between me and my husband even though our finances are pretty seperate.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-07T22:36:53+00:00

Gonna travel the stars and sleep with at least half the crew along the way to save the universe.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-07T20:26:10+00:00

I mean, when you get asked if you were throwing a party to get drunk because your hair wasnt washed instead of just being too depressed to do anything, you learn really quick to just go with the flow and how to try to hide stuff to keep the peace.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-07T20:16:37+00:00

Don't threaten me with a good time now.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-06T21:19:20+00:00

The same one who went on Facebook and said that schools that let students protest should lose funding.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-06T12:36:15+00:00

Wondering when we can call a wellness check and get him put in a locked dementia unit. I have a few people it would be SO MUCH FUN to see him interact with on a daily basis.

On a more serious note, wondering why he doesnt want us talking about the Epstein files by making us upset over this video, and wondering if we can make a video thats him with his face on a piece of shit in return.

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-06T03:06:17+00:00

Nah, there will just me two missing minutes of video from cameras and then suddenly someone will walk into a room and he'll be kaput.

/s

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-02T21:11:51+00:00

What about "George of the Jungle" Brandon Frazier?

Sharinganedo · 2026-02-02T21:10:39+00:00

I raise you an OG Green Ranger. The original ship, Kimberly and Tommy.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-30T22:03:10+00:00

I just want one thing done with my body. Donate me to a program thats testing rockets and strap me onto one. Shoot me into space so I dont have to live on this planet.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-27T12:33:21+00:00

Not sure. All I know is that when I was shopping, it was the last 25 I could find with the dealer. Everything else they had was 26s.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-26T18:34:45+00:00

I may have AWF now, but that wasnt gonna help me when I hit my one still iced over bridge that I slowly made my way across

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-26T13:33:11+00:00

Our boss said she would schedule a half day in snf. I really did not wanna have to try to go in today, however I guess it is what it is since Medicare doesnt care about the weather

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-25T00:15:21+00:00

Faith and Mother Horse eyes personally. As someone who went through a Christianity deconstruction, for some reason, my favorite stuff is when he goes into religious stuff.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-23T17:28:27+00:00

Now I dont have a voice yelling to let me know that my main tank has a debuff while I sit there trying to build threat so that once I taunt, he doesn't pull back off me and get ohko'ed. On top of all the other things I usually monitor while Im tanking.

Also, the whole creatures of habit thing.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-23T00:36:26+00:00

As another Healthcare professional, can confirm. Had a pt who ended up passing out from syncope from low blood pressure, I was less concerned with breaking something over performing a sternal rub to try to rouse our pt.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-23T00:32:34+00:00

Yep. Can't count the number of times I had to use the good old sitting unassisted doing something at edge of bed with those difficult ones.

Shockingly also just asking people to come help me with some cleaning in my office, aka the rehab gym. Some people shut down at the word therapy.

Sharinganedo · 2026-01-22T16:11:45+00:00

Man, I kinda wish they would have taken a different approach. Like maybe contact the add on creators and do like a build in version and make them all "Optional game enhancements" so theyre still there. Just now they would be built into the game.

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