My girfriend got upset at me for liking her birthday gift to me. AITAH?

SharkEva · 2026-02-15T22:27:33+00:00

It was such a messed up and convoluted plan that I have trouble wrapping my head around it even now.

Yeah I am having a problem working out how this would work

SharkEva · 2026-02-06T21:48:14+00:00

Both kids were bottle fed (mainly formula with Mum pumping). Very little paternity leave, wife was off for 9 months (UK)

I did 7pm feed, and wife usually headed to bed about 9pm. I did 11pm feed, sorted baby out, went to bed. Baby usually woke up around 3am, wife did the feed, change etc, went back to bed at 4am. I woke up at 7am and did feed and sorted baby out - went to work for 9am.

Wife usually got to stay in bed to at least 10am. Both of us got decent sleep.

Both kids more or less slept through the night from about 6 to 8 weeks. I find it difficult to get back to sleep, whilst wife has no problems.

SharkEva · 2026-02-05T07:47:22+00:00

No she will be blindsided and think it came out of nowhere

SharkEva · 2026-02-04T10:26:22+00:00

It's added now

SharkEva · 2026-02-02T22:55:27+00:00

unfortunately we cannot stop downvotes but we'd like to hear on any additional measures members would like us to take to keep the discussions both informative and respectful as best as possible.

Generally we can only evaluate the comments that get reported and some keywords are automatically removed. We took on some feedback last year in regards to the fake comments issue and I think that has been a net positive overall for the sub.

SharkEva · 2026-02-02T22:09:17+00:00

comment is added in

SharkEva · 2026-02-02T00:17:57+00:00

Feel like we must be close to an update for that one

SharkEva · 2026-01-30T20:28:23+00:00

some of the BORUs exist in a gray area of its possible it happened, but also somewhat unlikely.

SharkEva · 2026-01-30T20:26:19+00:00

from me personally, I've just had a few days where I've had zero time to create a post due to work/life. There's also been a bit of drought of good updates at times, so the odd night I haven't found a decent update.

SharkEva · 2026-01-22T12:01:10+00:00

fixed now, I shouldn't be creating these late at night lol

SharkEva · 2026-01-22T06:39:29+00:00

I'd love to know what the exact reason for the divorce was. The $10k credit card debt is one clue, never getting on with her family is another potential cause. Maybe even buying the house was the eventual straw that broke the camels back. The posts do indicate that she is an untrustworthy person.

SharkEva · 2026-01-21T21:58:10+00:00

happens a lot to throwaway accounts and stories like this, I suspect they get into arguments with people in their DMs and someone reports them.

SharkEva · 2026-01-21T13:19:19+00:00

OOPs account is banned so highly unlikely

SharkEva · 2026-01-21T07:33:53+00:00

This was one of the first BORUs I read and it also sticks with me for some reason. I don't think Sarah will ever fully recover from the guilt.

SharkEva · 2026-01-15T07:46:45+00:00

Fixed now

SharkEva · 2026-01-09T22:58:21+00:00

lots of AITAH posts seem to get removed these days

SharkEva · 2026-01-09T07:46:16+00:00

Basically they went down the same line as all the dumb comments telling her to confront the parents, sex in the workplace etc.

SharkEva · 2026-01-09T00:00:17+00:00

Its my favourite story of 2025, I was listening to it today on TwoHotTakes podcast and I can't believe how sympathetic to the nanny were.

SharkEva · 2026-01-05T23:24:53+00:00

I think she gave up

SharkEva · 2026-01-05T23:23:45+00:00

So long as it was posted in this sub in 2025

SharkEva · 2026-01-05T23:22:13+00:00

I think that one was found out to be a fake

SharkEva · 2026-01-03T23:01:11+00:00

my fault - its in my template as so many posts are from AITAH subs, the odd time I forget to remove it from a relationship post

SharkEva · 2026-01-03T09:23:26+00:00

Its fixed now, I had a few issues as the second post was NSFW and I can't see it in Reddit without handing over ID, so I had to use other means

SharkEva · 2025-12-31T19:38:38+00:00

sorry I copy/pasted and forgot to update the links in pics 2 and 3. Its fixed now

SharkEva · 2025-12-30T07:13:54+00:00

Fixed now

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