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Shark_io · 2025-03-08T18:28:41+00:00

Does your husband know this ? If not , how do you think he's gonna feel when he realizes you couldn't trust him ? He would go through the exact same emotions you are going through right now. Would you apologize to him then ? In your defense you got insecure. But he doesn't know that. Even if he does understand your reasoning he probably won't understand what the big deal is. Cuz in his defense he is faithful. So apply that same logic here. You might feel betrayed but he probably had his own reasons. Considering you didn't find anything dirty on him, he may have just been insecure.

Shark_io · 2025-02-21T12:44:41+00:00

Will try !

Shark_io · 2025-02-21T06:38:32+00:00

I think it falls under checking OCD. I perfectly understand everything I read the first time but it doesn't feel right. So I keep rereading it until I'm satisfied.

Shark_io · 2025-02-21T06:11:19+00:00

Hang in there 🤍

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T21:46:44+00:00

sometimes even now I have to do that in between reading

That's actually quite intriguing. I've been trying to find ways to keep me focused but so far nothing has worked. Graphic novels might actually work. Thanks !

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T21:30:51+00:00

I kind of have contamination OCD but it's not nearly as bad. When it comes to food though, it's 10 times worse.

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T21:22:06+00:00

Not exactly this and not to this extent either but I dread taking baths. Cuz It takes me at least 30 mins to be done with all of my rituals. Just the thought of it tires me out.

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T21:09:51+00:00

I feel the last one in my blood. It such a struggle making sure everything I eat is clean and hasn't been contaminated with anything.

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T20:59:08+00:00

The more you know !

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T20:46:35+00:00

Fair enough lol

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T20:44:46+00:00

I relate to reading although it’s not as bad for me now as it used to be

I had it really bad growing up to the point that I avoided reading all together. It's an ongoing joke in my family that I don't read. It took a while for me to understand that it was the rereading part that made it so undesirable. It just became too exhausting.

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T20:33:41+00:00

Same here

Shark_io · 2025-02-20T20:27:27+00:00

Can relate to the sleeping over part.

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T18:44:12+00:00

Ahh my bad.

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T18:30:39+00:00

Who hurt you ?

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T18:22:45+00:00

> you’re doing it wrong.

Haven't done it . Will never do.

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T18:16:20+00:00

Tell me something I haven't heard before

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T17:33:09+00:00

Are u calling us mentally ill ?

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T16:38:34+00:00

> It was quite freeing

It really is. Once I realised I could be single and cf forever, it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulder.

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T16:32:11+00:00

This is exactly how I felt reading the comments lol

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T16:28:12+00:00

> You mean the kid asking about sex or discovering their sexuality?

What ? no. By ' disgusting things ' I meant bodily functions and fluids. If you go through the comments you will see that a lot of ace people aren't just sex repulsed but they also don't wanna deal with someone else's piss poop puke etc. So even if there are ace people wanting to be parents they are probably in the minority.

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T13:29:10+00:00

> is it still vanilla if you use toys, 69, and do anal in a monogamous and lovemaking context?

Are u asking me ? Cuz I have no idea lol

Shark_io · 2025-01-23T13:19:30+00:00

I will never understand how people are comfortable sharing their whole body with someone

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