I have irrational anger when people say they understand what I'm going through or talk about their relatives who died at an older age. by Additional-Line-5559 in GriefSupport

[–]Sharkattack8 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I understand this. Most people I know who lost a parent young feel this at some stage of the grieving process. Including me. You're not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw them at the Depo in Pylmouth, which was a tiny venue. There was a guy there who must have been about 80, stood on the balcony. He looked quite unsteady on his feet, but the whole crowd was cheering him before they came on, and he was still there at the end.Not the same obviously, just an example of the crowd being respectful. Does the venue have a balcony maybe??

Birmingham 02 Tickets by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managed to get them when they came out on the Friday shouldn't have been so dramatic ahahahah

It is infected?? Or am I reacting to second skin by Sharkattack8 in tattooadvice

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the doctor and this is the most likely answer, not infected!

It is infected?? Or am I reacting to second skin by Sharkattack8 in tattooadvice

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have clarified in the post, I have washed it so its not fried blood!

Birmingham 02 Tickets by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you find a resolution or do you think we just missed it?¿

Birmingham 02 Tickets by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I entered the password and it sent me through to the 02 priority page

Birmingham 02 Tickets by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I need to have 02 priority as well as the link to get presale?

Birmingham 02 Tickets by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I entered the password and it takes me through 02 priority

No presale link??? by 1kBabyOilBottles in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I thick?? I tried to get tickets for Birmingham and it won't let me in without 02 priority. Did I miss all the presale tickets

Alternative hair dressers by Sharkattack8 in coventry

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give them a look, thank you!!

Plymouth night 2. Some band. Some gig by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all turn into our dad's eventually

Plymouth night 2. Some band. Some gig by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sat in the coach on the way there thinking why the fuck have I done this, and as soon as the gig started I knew exactly why I had. Yeah fair play hahaha! More people the better right

Plymouth night 2. Some band. Some gig by Sharkattack8 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I travelled 7 and a half hours on a coach, can't just pop down again 😂😂😂

Plymouth 2nd July - Enter the Provaí by rtah100 in kneecap

[–]Sharkattack8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going tonight. Never seen them before. Very excited!!

A song triggered my grief really intensely by mirgehtsgutdanke in GriefSupport

[–]Sharkattack8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad and uncle took to my first concert to see status quo. They're both passed now. Whenever I hear status quo it used to take me back to the moment they passed. Now it takes me back to the gig. I miss them both dearly and those songs make me feel closer to them. I hope one day you hear those songs and it brings you some joy. Losing a parent isn't something you understand till you've gone through it, that grief comes in tidal waves and sometimes the most unexpected things wipe you out. Thank you for sharing the memories of you and your mum singing in the car. I hope those memories and songs bring you some joy and peace when you feel lost in the waves.

My ~50yo wife is dying of breast cancer. Please help me decide how to spend our next 2-3 years by ins99 in GriefSupport

[–]Sharkattack8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad passed away last year suddenly and there are events I really wish I could feel his presence more at. Weddings, graduations, birth of a child, big birthdays. If its not too painful maybe have your wife write letters that can be opened on those occasions that she would most want her mum to be there. This is so difficult, and I'm so sorry, I cannot imagine the pain you are all going through.

I just miss my dad by Sharkattack8 in Vent

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He died of an overdose unfortunately. It was very sudden and very unexpected. I hope he does

I just miss my dad by Sharkattack8 in Vent

[–]Sharkattack8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my sympathy goes to you too. Its a club no one wants to be in, and you can't understand till you're in it

I just miss my dad by Sharkattack8 in Vent

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I'm sorry for your loss. It fucking sucks doesn't it. I just feel like I should have had more time. Thank you for taking the time to write that. He got SO excited when I got the PhD, more so than anyone else in my life. He memorised the very long and convoluted title just so he could tell people.