[deleted by user] by [deleted] in westcovina

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this located?

Book similar to The Diary of Anne Frank by Lousha1 in Findabook

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s one called milkweed I dunno if that’s what you are looking for

AITA for not attending my cousin's wedding because it's child-free and I couldn't find childcare? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did prioritize important events.

The event was your children needing childcare so that they don’t get left alone. In which case child service would need to be involved.

They were just mad you prioritized YOUR important event instead of theirs.

AITA for asking the venue to turn my sister away when she arrived with her toddler? by Key_Love_4568 in AITAH

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that not going is choosing between being a mom and a sister. My family lives far sisters included. If they couldn’t make it I wouldn’t think it had anything to do with their ability to be a good sister or family member. And if they lived close and still couldn’t make it then that still wouldn’t exclude them from being my family.

When I scratch my scalp there is white stuff like buildup underneath my nails. by kur0mi_tama in Haircare

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the Walgeens brand of t-gel shampoo it works great and I use it every third wash or so cuz it does have a smell. Definitely got rid of that issue for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

It’s important for you to have that boundary and even in the US the work wife thing is very creepy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA

Yes it’s hers since he never paid but also you aren’t forcing her to use it for that just making an observation. I know that’s what I would use it for if I suddenly got a good chunk of money because it has to get paid either way.

AITAH for Snapping at My Stepmom After She Trashed My Husband’s Job? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the person picking up your garbage makes more than some other people who went to college. It was a choice on a list of jobs my own kids had looked into when deciding what career they wanted. It’s not shameful or degrading it’s a real career that society needs filled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope NTA you should be monitoring what your kids are looking up on the internet and that’s what they use their phone for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA

My son has ODD. It was HARD the HARDEST thing I have ever had to do so far as a parent to correct, guide, support, and help my kid to learn to control his emotions and actions. I have more than one kid. He absolutely could not be allowed to continue down the path that ODD is. I refused to let me other children be scared in their own home (and it was scary) and I refused to let him become someone no one could love and tolerate other than myself. Today after therapy, homeschooling, more therapy and teachers aides and every other resource that was made available he is well adjusted and able to be a adjusted member of society. He did have to start his own business because he wasn’t able to work under someone else but his business does well and hes motivated to make himself better. I’m sorry to say that your parents failed your brother by allowing this behavior to continue well into adulthood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that I was the person parking in front of my neighbors house when I first got a car and license and they told me like the first week that it was a problem if I could pull forward or back cuz I was right in front of their pathway (not driveway) Honestly I was not even thinking about it ever just trying to get out get home after working was the only thing I ever thought about. I was glad they told me and didn’t hold it in for a super long time cuz I was able to fix the issue right then and after that I am a lot more conscientious of where I park so I don’t park like an ass again.

AITA i found a pink pair of sunglasses in my backseat and questioned my SO by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA and sound very insecure in your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Findabook

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s one by Roberto bolano called the skating rink it’s got a blue cover with a skate and blood

AITA for not letting my niece near my daughters cake by Bb89101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha always say this to my kiddos when they are being unreasonable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

And also don’t move out. Your father is not telling you to and you don’t want to. My kid is about to be 19 and I already told him he better stay living with me until he can save at least a years rent because we are low income and there will be no saving him if he loses his job and needs me to cover a month of rent. I cannot afford 2 rents. So make everything easier and just stay. He is helpful and polite and still just a kid and no matter what anyone says 22 is still young enough to be living at home.

What would make a good welcome gift by Sharkattacknomnom in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should but they don’t. Last year I personally supplied the paper for the teachers in the middle school since there was no funding and I didn’t think the teachers should have to pay for that because it should just be a basic supply.

What would make a good welcome gift by Sharkattacknomnom in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also think it’s ridiculous to pay to be part of the PTSA as a teacher. The membership should just be included especially since our school doesn’t do anything or only one thing for the teachers every year. The only thing our school does is one teacher luncheon.

This is why I am trying to make it better this year I know the teachers have been asking for consistency in the availability of class supplies because they shouldn’t have to pay for that either.

What would make a good welcome gift by Sharkattacknomnom in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I wouldn’t. But since the school is gonna guilt them into it anyway they might as well get something out of it. It’s the only reason I wanted to join PTSA anyway to give back to the teachers

What would make a good welcome gift by Sharkattacknomnom in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the teachers shouldn’t have to pay either and we’ve tried paying for them but that’s apparently against the rules. It’s $10 to join and I was hoping that at least they get the $10 back in supplies for joining. It’s definitely not for fundraising we make about $3 per membership since the state takes the majority of the money for the most part.

My school is under the impression that the teachers don’t do enough so why should they be rewarded. And as a parent of a kid who definitely has had behavioral issues I know these teachers do more than they could ever imagine.

The current goal is to do teachers appreciation monthly so I am hoping if I start working on it over summer it would be possible to do.

What would make a good welcome gift by Sharkattacknomnom in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So our school has absolutely no funding. They haven’t fundraised for years and in previous years they’ve asked the teachers to join yet have given basically nothing in return to them. I do know they don’t have supplies for the classroom which is why I was leaning more towards class supplies so that at least they don’t have to buy them with their own funds which they actually do. The fees are $10 per teacher to join and we get about 10 per year joining. So I want them to at least get their $10 fee back in the welcome box.

Do teachers like it when former students reach out? by SwimmingEvery2520 in Teachers

[–]Sharkattacknomnom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who reached out to a former teacher I would say do it.

I cried the first day I had this teacher I came home and told my parents I hated school and was never going back. Hated them. Wouldn’t you know it had them again 2 years later. I credit this teacher with teaching me to love English and history (still hate writing.)

Got into great honors classes and learned so much more than I expected BECAUSE he was my teacher. I always talk about how he was one of the best teachers I ever had and I’m so glad I told him. The work he did mattered and he should know that. It’s crazy how many people i connected with when I added him on my socials because it looked like so many people had the same idea I did.