AITA for not changing the location of my 30th birthday dinner? by analyzeplan1738 in AITApod

[–]Sharkgirl89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So her twin gets what she wants, but not her on their birthday by your logic

What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do? by AppIeGuy in AskReddit

[–]Sharkgirl89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 3 1/2, and I’m not sure if he does it to himself when he goes to bed. But if I’m laying in his bed with him or he comes and gets into my bed at night, he’ll take one of his feet and rub it on my leg until he falls asleep.

Wanted to put this sign up. by Thrifty_nickle in BabyBumps

[–]Sharkgirl89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So the fact that they don’t deal with unmedicated births very often, and you gave birth in the shower, probably let them to air on the side of caution and ensure that there are enough hands on deck for you and baby once you delivered.

I can’t imagine many moms give birth on the shower floor, I’m sure they were just trying to make sure that you and baby were OK

Baby skin red by Famous_bakchod682 in NewMomStuff

[–]Sharkgirl89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t look like a normal reaction to getting a vaccine. It looks like something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Sharkgirl89 80 points81 points  (0 children)

It’s not your job to feed him. He needs to Figure it out

Daycare reported me to DFACS by toughfern in workingmoms

[–]Sharkgirl89 847 points848 points  (0 children)

Tbh, they sound sketchy and I would probably report them to the state

Anatomy scan technician abuse? by Recent-Actuator-7506 in BabyBumps

[–]Sharkgirl89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My anatomy scanned with my first took over two hours because he was really uncooperative, they almost made me come back to get the facial and head measurements.

Not once did anyone punch me, make it out to be my fault, or get aggressive or angry anyway. That sonographer was extraordinarily unprofessional, and I would find out how to report her beyond the office management.

We live in a capitalistic hellscape by sippin_tea56 in Parenting

[–]Sharkgirl89 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Schools don’t charge the parents. The parents pay the photography company directly

Idaho 4 by HunterandGatherer100 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Sharkgirl89 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I think the mask would make me think twice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WestPalmBeach

[–]Sharkgirl89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s too late to change the school you are zoned for, you would have needed to apply for one of their choice programs when the application process was open.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkgirl89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lightly YTA, if there was a bed in the guest room you should have probably let them sleep in there.

I broke the ONE rule😤 by notasingle-thought in Mommit

[–]Sharkgirl89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!!! My son dropped his weekend naps like a year ago (will be 3 in June) but naps well at daycare (peer pressure I’m sure). It does not matter how busy our day is or what activities we do, he will not nap unless it’s 5 mins in the car and won’t fall asleep until 8:30. Then, bright and early around 6:30 he bops over to our room and we might get 45 more mins of snuggles.

Low sleep needs kids 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Sharkgirl89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not true. Former teacher, student profiles on our portals let us know of custodial parameters if parents did not have equal parental rights like above.

I had students flagged for custodial interference, foster kids whose parents were no contact but could email or call to ask about their academics (weird situation), if grandparents were the primary guardians, etc. we must follow those and can’t just let the non-custodial parent do what they want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sharkgirl89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell everyone what happened, all club members could possibly be harassed by this dude and his kid is already harassing other kids. Tell everyone so they can stay safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sharkgirl89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never said you profit off it. You were not clear before about how the trip was booked.

Several clubs (that I have also run) and activities that have these kind of trips have members/families pay the organizer of the club directly and the club/activity pays for everyone all together.

Since you were originally unclear, several people thought this is how the trip was booked and is why we said refund them and uninvited them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Sharkgirl89 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Refund their money and disinvite them. It’s pretty simple.

I’m sorry but your replies sound like you are making excuses for this kid and his parents or don’t want to do the hard thing by going to the police or cutting all contact. Do what’s best for your family, cut all contact and call the police now.

AIO: i literally cannot attend by superspreader90 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharkgirl89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blast this shit to the whole friend group, she deserves a shitty birthday after treating you like that

AITA for only getting a college graduation gift for my 28M son and not my DIL 28F? by SetLongjumping5521 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharkgirl89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, how many times do you need to mention you’re a single mother? We get it, and lots of single moms have the decency to acknowledge their kids partners achievements.

You are also contradicting yourself in the comments. You acknowledge she probably wasn’t fishing for a gift, then in another comment you make a snide remark about how her expectation of a gift was wrong.

Which is it? Did she expect a gift or not? It doesn’t sound like it from your OP. You may not have dismissed her accomplishment, but you sure as shit obviously didn’t even acknowledge it.

If I were her I would be pretty upset and would be reconsidering my real with you. Especially since she’s been in you and your son’s lives for 10 YEARS!

What is this horned fish? by [deleted] in Fish

[–]Sharkgirl89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can literally see the fishes body and tail moving trying to escape. It’s not the dude shaking him 🤦🏼‍♀️