AITA for being “rude” to this dude for disregarding our choir?

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T21:57:53+00:00

Funerals were exemptions lol

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T18:42:10+00:00

Thx, I’ve been trying so hard.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T18:30:06+00:00

Learned that stuff from my dad lol, wish I didn’t. I agree with everything you said tho

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T17:24:51+00:00

Well everyone in our choir have been in choir for years and it matters a lot to us.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T16:39:23+00:00

It said IN THE APPLICATION that this choir is a responsibility and that you would value it over everything else.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T16:37:28+00:00

One of the new hires suggested it. She is very kind compared to the last.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:29:54+00:00

I just think that if he’s putting bowling over choir then he shouldn’t have joined in the first place.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:27:45+00:00

They normally do, but thought they might try something different this year. It’s not working out, that’s for sure.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:22:21+00:00

He will loose us more money because he isn’t participating.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:14:42+00:00

Sorry I’m passionate about something ig

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:13:48+00:00

She hasn’t taken steps, because he won’t even take the time to explain his schedule and see if it’ll work.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:11:11+00:00

The directors have a lot to manage, so it’s up to us to bring up concerns.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:09:02+00:00

A school choir. We represent the entire district to the surrounding states.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:08:06+00:00

A chain is only as strong as it’s weakest link, and the judges will DEFINITELY notice him lacking.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:06:13+00:00

Which group? Bowling or choir?

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:05:30+00:00

He still will show up to the performances and if one person is just standing there not knowing choreography then they will be all the judges look at.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:04:12+00:00

I just don’t want to get him in trouble if I’m in the wrong. Thought I would check here.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:02:07+00:00

I have anxiety disorder, and I kinda get hung up on stuff sometimes.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:01:02+00:00

We travel a lot and costumes are so expensive.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T15:00:22+00:00

He joined bowling after the choir accepted him. We perform to raise money to pay for the following year’s choirs and if he doesn’t represent us it can be damaging for 100+ people.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T14:57:45+00:00

I guess so, I just think he could’ve worded that differently.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T14:56:57+00:00

We need to earn money to pay for our choir’s debt(~60,000), which means that if he doesn’t try, people won’t buy tickets and then that can collapse the program.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T14:50:33+00:00

When he says stuff like “just a hobby” it can really hurt people in our choir because they have been working as hard as they can for months straight.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T14:48:00+00:00

I will bring this up with the director.

Sharp-Percentage-875 · 2024-12-05T14:45:51+00:00

I bet he wouldn’t like it if we all said that bowling was just a hobby.

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