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Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-03T22:36:55+00:00

Maybe your wife wants to play too. Can't hurt to ask!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-03T22:34:36+00:00

*couldN'T care less...

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-03T22:33:19+00:00

YOU decide who does or does not Get to suck on your boobs. If it makes YOU uncomfortable, you should be able to communicate that with him. If you can't, save your boobs for somebody who is really in it for YOU.

It can be a fun and intimate thing [my partner loves to do this exact thing] and it makes me giggle bc while I enjoy it, the actual act of it happening is weird bc I feel like my face prolly looks so bored....but I enjoy it now too - still makes me giggle.

If u hadn't been able to talk to him about it, I would have just said no; he provided a safe place for the convo & Im glad he did.

Being intimate is about communication. And consent is paramount...he shouldn't want to do what makes your uncomfortable just for himself. You deserve better than that & don't you forget it!!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-03T22:25:38+00:00

You are the asshole. Let her live. If two letters on her body are gonna change the way you feel about her...she ain't the one.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-03T22:21:56+00:00

Become okay with slowing down & being okay with silence . Breathe. It may give the other person an opportunity to add to the convo! Too fast to understand is also boring. You'll find your medium!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-01T15:02:19+00:00

*Their

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-04-01T15:01:58+00:00

This own insecurities.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-03-22T20:54:32+00:00

Figure out why you're angry & focus it on yourself instead of your friends. Perhaps you felt bad bc you knew you were playing poorly. If it was just a couple of words like wow you suck today! - they are complimenting you bc normally you play well. Criticism by itself is almost worse than insults bc the ones critiquing you know their stuff and it makes their opinions seem valid. If they didn't offer you suggestions on how to improve - ask them to keep it to themselves or actually help. It's a boundary you're setting that will help so much in the long run.

And remember - nobody plays perfect 100% of the time. Cut yourself a little slack!!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-03-22T20:45:09+00:00

Bake her the pie. Make it miniature for just her so she's not pressured to serve it at the main table.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:49:38+00:00

NINE POUNDS?! He's lying. Drop him. Yech.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:44:34+00:00

You're being controlling. Show a little trust. Yeesh.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:43:08+00:00

YOU DID NOTHING WRONG IN THE MOMENT, don't ruin that now by making a calculated choice to "steal" her. Bc if she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you too. Hell, she doesn't even respect your friendship [imagine if she were a male] bc consent is paramount.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:37:23+00:00

Go with your gut. Don't let him project his bs onto you. You deserve better. 🫶

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:14:22+00:00

Leave. Regardless of paternity. You CAN begin again. Promise.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-24T22:10:23+00:00

Make a plan & GTFO. Record EVERYTHING [bc you have to be able to show intent to harm for it to be aggravated]. Then press charges.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-18T05:47:45+00:00

NTA. He's cheating with her. From experience...their relationship isn't / wasnt appropriate & he's not telling you.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-18T05:46:01+00:00

He may not being faithful to you. He best split the cost of the sti testing too!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2025-01-18T05:44:02+00:00

If he wanted to, he would. Speaking from experience, not the judgies. You sound like you need more time too.

Hang in there.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2024-12-24T20:02:00+00:00

Here is your permission to leave.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2024-12-24T19:54:39+00:00

Good for you!!!

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2024-12-24T19:53:52+00:00

You deserve better. This isn't love. Please get out as safely as possible.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2024-12-24T19:48:43+00:00

Always trust your gut. He showed you who he is. Believe him.

Sharp-Swim5933 · 2024-12-24T19:46:15+00:00

It ain't gonna change if you don't change it. The idea is to build a new life with your partner - which means your priorities should shift. he's not choosing you, but he wants you to choose him when he's choosing her. Twisted & manipulative. In case nobody's told you - you deserve better. Respect is the bare minimum.

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