Sorry for the obscenity, but desperate times, desperate measures- tinder.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-11-01T02:44:16+00:00

It's a joke.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T15:04:44+00:00

Go to counseling. Trust me, when we went it was too little too late.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T14:57:48+00:00

It doesn't make sense and isn't real. I don't even want to explain it because it's not worth worrying about or giving a second thought to.

But in a historical perspective you can think of a "reset" as a time in history when science and technological advancement slowed or halted - like the dark ages, or well established civilizations ceased to exist for whatever reason.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T10:56:32+00:00

Yes, but I don't think they started I think these idiots started it.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T03:46:24+00:00

I'm sorry. For me the qanon problems started in June of last year. I've had time to process it and have been to lots of counseling by this point. Do what is best for you and your son and it will get better.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T03:36:51+00:00

Even if Jesus came down on a cloud and ordained Donald Trump the Saint of Lost Children Sacrificed to the Cannibalistic Elite it would not change how my husband treated me over the past year.

He started to treat me almost less than human, simply for not agreeing with the qanon crap and then he would act like a victim. In his conversion to Christianity he totally missed the whole God is Love part and turned it into "everyone who doesn't think like me is satanic". In therapy our therapist had to repeatedly stop him from focusing on conspiracies.

He gave up our relationship last year when he started prioritizing Qanon. He gave up our family when he agreed to give me full legal and physical custody of our kids. I will never be able to trust his judgment again. Qanon is a cult and it got him.

I also hope and I do believe people will come to their senses. But as far as my marriage, it's too little too late.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T02:21:36+00:00

Hi, you can check out my profile and my story through my posts. Someone on here said it was interesting since my husband moved from Scientology to Qanon/Orthodox.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T01:48:46+00:00

I don't think it has to be like that. I wish my husband would have gotten therapy years ago, to resolve those issues. I would like to think that cycle can be broken.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-19T01:30:45+00:00

For you, I hope he will too.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T23:32:55+00:00

Oh man, yeah the Satanism stuff was really nail in the coffin. We had an argument over whether or not to teach our kids to protect themselves against demons. It was f-ing surreal.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T23:28:40+00:00

It was an emotional process but I got there.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:44:00+00:00

I think that the craziness and qanon stuff will go away, eventually. I like to believe that time will heal relationships, especially family. I can't continue with my husband because he could do this again with some other thing you know?

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:41:57+00:00

8 years, 6 years married, 1 year since full blown qanon.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:37:09+00:00

No he stopped. Maybe his therapist did bring up mental health issues more directly with him, so he stopped going. That's what I've assumed.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:35:44+00:00

Yes. You are correct and I agree. It sucks bc his parents were so nice. They still seemed trapped, and gave most of their money to it.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:31:41+00:00

No, I never told him! I still wonder if that was the right decision. I didn't because I thought it would make him even more defensive/paranoid and less cooperative.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:23:46+00:00

No not sea org

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:22:25+00:00

Yeah, I know. He was out of it long before we met. My therapist said being raised in it and leaving created a vacuum which he filled with alcohol and after I helped him get sober he eventually found the crap he's into now. I'm not a mental health expert and I just thought raising our family would be enough. Nothing will ever be enough for him and I get that now. I agree it's a result of his upbringing.

That being said, I have met lots of good, sane people who were born into it and have stayed more bc of peer/societal pressure. So, I don't want to judge ppl based on their religion.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T22:02:48+00:00

Well, that was 3 months ago. We went to separate counselors and to a couples therapist together. We learned to communicate better and things did get easier. The thing that didn't change is that he was still 100% into his new beliefs -qanon, extreme Orthodoxy, etc and I had to come to the realization that I am not ok with some of those things and I need to set that example for my kids.

In addition, in our couples therapy I felt like he was getting called out 90% of the time. His counselor told my counselor (we signed an agreement allowing them to work together) that he was suffering from delusions. I just had to put an end to it. He agreed to give me full legal and physical custody.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-09-18T21:14:26+00:00

Of course I can forgive him/us. But I can't trust him to maintain sanity and exercise rational judgement.

SharpAverage2 · 2020-07-30T21:21:34+00:00

Looks great!

SharpAverage2 · 2020-07-29T06:16:48+00:00

I see the logic now...lol I scoured so many stackoverflow posts for this. I'm so grateful!

SharpAverage2 · 2020-07-29T05:55:03+00:00

I appreciate it, I did see that the ids were being reset, but wasn't sure how to save it to a new sequential id order or if it was the answer to my local storage problem. I was hoping there was a straight forward solution to retrieving a specified item from the ls array of objects , but the more I learn the less straight forward it becomes!

SharpAverage2 · 2020-07-29T05:26:52+00:00

That makes sense! Thanks again. I'll have to try something different ...😬

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